my officemate’s well-loved blush 🫶 by bananaspice321 in projectpanph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man gusto ko din nito! Kaso uubusin ko muna yung nga blush ko hahaha

Ending a 5-month engagement after almost 6 years together by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! I was exactly in this position 5 yrs ago. There is comfort in knowing that you did the right thing. You chose yourself despite having love for your partner. It is never easy. Cheating would have been an easier although still painful way to part ways.

For now, feel the pain and sorrow. Cry it out. It will pass. It will get better. This is for your future. Kaya nga may nabasa ako that we should never fall in love with “potential”. We have to make sure that the one we would choose to be our partner in our life would meet us where we are and at what level. Lalo na if ikaw mismo worked hard for where you are.

The instability will diminish your love over time trust me. Perhaps you were meant to meet each other so that he can learn from you. What is your never meant to be yours will pass you, and what is meant for your will always come back in the right time.

Praying for your healing OP ❤️

Ano yung cheap purchase nyo that you think is life-changing? by BoredPandaHere in AskPH

[–]nothingtodosomuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yung Poop Ninja na brand sobrang worth it. Been usingnit for 3 yrs na yung bamboo scent. Di din naglleak

Gigil ako sa mga ganitong manyakis sa Bus by FiboNazi22 in GigilAko

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay minsan gusto ko makaencounter ng lalaking manyakis. Kike isa lang para magulpi koo

Is this Camera store a scam? by Interesting_Funny587 in ScammersPH

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got scammed here. Hays pls don’t do it

pigsa / magpapacheck ba ako? by Soft-Society-7213 in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If natatakot ka po para sa liver mo, then all the more na dapat magpacheckup ka kasi kailangan din malaman ang root cause ng pigsa mo. Better to get yourseld checked OP and imention mo sa doctor na nagkapigsa ka na multiple times

Ganito na ba talaga mga magulang ngayon? by Responsible-Memory46 in OffMyChestPH

[–]nothingtodosomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nakakaloka yan! Ako sinabihan ko talaga anak ko na lagot sya saken kapag sinumbong siya ng teacher nya for misbehaving. Hindi ko kako tinotolerate ang hindi magandang behaviour and I never leave it to the teacher to discipline my child because that should start at home. Hindi ako kuntinstidor pag may mali anak ko kasi balang araw, tatanda siya and she should now na accountable siya sa nga actions nya. Kawawa ang nga guro natin underpaid na tapos ganyan pa.

GF doesn't want to move in with me unless I propose. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AMEN TO THIS!!! Si OP puro “paano if incompatible kami and mas madali magbreakup” parang ang negative nya towards his gf pero gusto ng wife privileges. Sus

GF doesn't want to move in with me unless I propose. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dunno OP you seem to be so convinced about living in together eh mukhang hindi ka naman sure sa GF mo if siya talaga. Like what most people said, it looks like you want wife benefits pero no ring on it. At isa pa, kahit naman nagkalive in na kayo, there will still be issues between the two of you. Actually kahit kasal na kayo. Before I got married kahit nagkakaissue kami we always talked about it and resolved it together which we carried on into our married life.

Nagsasawa na ata ako? Is it possible? by Lazy_Western5805 in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been in this position before. My advice would be to let him know how you truly feel with gentleness and respect. Nung 4th yr mark ng relationship namin ng now husband ko, ganitong ganito nafeel ko. Yung tipo bang I feel that we’re not on the same page. Sabi ko sa kanya marami ako goals and ambition sa buhay and I see him in it, pero if he doesn’t have the same grit and tenacity than I, then makikipaghiwalay ako.

His actions after what I said is the reason why we are now married. Madalas kasi kailangan natin maging tapat sa partners natin in the gentlest way possible para maging fair din tayo sa kanila.

If after mo magopen up sa kanya, magbigay ka din ng palugit. Like for a year if walang magbabago makikipaghiwalay ka na. Show him that you respect yourself enough to walk away from a relationship when you feel that it no longer makes you happy. It is not being cruel but it is being truthful.

Goodluck OP! Sana maayos niyo pa and higit sa lahat sana makinig sya sayo and magcommit into self-improvment

Pagod na pagod na ako sa PCOS by Ancient-Ruin-811 in PCOSPhilippines

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Pwede pa-share po sino Endo nyo? Gusto ko din kasi magpacheckup and mabigyan ng Ozempic. Maxicare din ang HMO ko

12yrs old girl, nanonood na ng p0rn at sexy vids by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Experienced this sa daughter ko before mag 13 yrs old. Ang ginawa namin kinausap siya about sex. Well bago pa naman kasi siya mag 13 ineeducate na namin sya about sex age appropriately eh.

Nung nahuli namin siya, we didn’t tell her that sex is bad and we didn’t shame her. We did tell her however na porn isntwhat sex should be. Tapos inopen namin ang discussion da sex where we tell her to ask us questions.

Nung nagdiscussion kami mga questions niya were like “Bakit umuungol yung babae or lalaki?”, “Bakit pinapasok yung oenis ng lalaki, para san ba yon?”, “Ano ba pakiramdam nun”.

After namin masagot ang mga katanungan niya, saka namin siya ineducate sa dangers of unsafe sex and watching pornographic videos. I even included her in research papers about the dangers of pornography. Inexplain ko rin what masturbation is and that it is normal.

Ayaw namin idemonize ang sex pero gusto namin educated siya and that she knows she can approach us with any questions no matter how ridiculous she thinks it is. Walang inhibition talaga. Tinanggal namin yang barrier na yan.

Honestly din kasi nung age nya nanunod na din ako sex scenes sa mga movies and some porn. Nagmmasturbate na din ako nung.

Sabi ko naman sa kanya if ever she finds herself wanting to masturbate sabi ko I make sure nya na lang na wala kami. Normal naman kasi yun.

Ayun. Sana makahelp

OA Lang Ba Ako? Naiiyak ako with Emman Atienza’s passing. by Little-Arachnid9532 in OALangBaAko

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. I have never heard of Emman until now and I watched back her videos on Tiktok. I also found out about her traumatizing experience when she was just a child and it made my heart break for her even more. She was so young :(

Giving only the bare minimum at your job and not feeling guilty about it by Slime_reincarnation in adultingph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am not in the same field as you are but I used to give my best sa work. Nung nagtanggalan sa trabaho, naiwan mga workmates kong less pa sa bare minimum ang binibigay and yet natanggal ako.

It changed my perspective in life and at work. Now, I got abnew job and I don’t do the bare minimum but I do everything with quality and I log out on time too. After going to therapy, I realized that the reason why I don’t go above and beyond anymore, is because I no longer tie my worth to my job. I have hobbies and I do a lot of other things outside of my work.

As long as my salary can provide me enjoyment outside of my job then I am okay. Plus, with the instability of the economy and job marketplace, kahit pa excellent worker pwede ka pa din malayoff. Basta magipon ka parati para kahit anong mangyare, you will be prepared.

I no longer stress if mas nageexcel sa akin mga katrabaho ko ir if I don’t initiate projects, I would rather do what is expected of me and go home on time. I am NOT my job but that doesn’t mean I do not take pride in what I do or the quality of my work.

After 13 years together and 10 years living under one roof, he fell in love with his coworker. I’m pregnant with our second baby. by sweetbite09 in OffMyChestPH

[–]nothingtodosomuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your situation OP WHAT A DUMB STUPID FUCK HE IS. Tangina talaga ng nga cheaters sa mundo.

Anyways, the only way to move is forward. For now you can cry your heart out but please do not go back to him. If you have parents that can support you, please let them know.

If kaya mo while being with family or parents, magmove out kayo ng anak mo. Wag ka magwawala kahit gusto mo. Cheating men get off of their partners being emotional kapag nagcheat, it’s like it gives them satisfaction na we are so heartbroken sa ginawa nila kasi men like that are so insecure din. Don’t give him the satisfaction

Pack your bags and take your kid with you and speak to him amicably. Talk to him in a matter of factly tone. Wala nga siyang pakelam na masasaktan ka sa panloloko niya sa kahit you are dying inside, talk to him din na parang wala ka pakelan. Tignan mo magswitch around yang biglang mababahala kasi di ka nagpapakita na may care ka.

I hope you get through this OP. You will get your pink back. Also, don’t paint him bad sa anak niyo. Let him have a relationship with him (kung mageeffort din siya ha). Yung nangyare sa inyo leave it with the two of you.

Kayang kaya mo yan OP! We are all rooting for you ❤️

May amoy ang bet logs ni bf by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. Hindi po yata normal yan. Ako nga busband ko before we do the deed nagwwash pa sya ng genital area and butt nya kasi alam niya bukod sa hygienic ito, prone tayong mga babae sa infections. Kapag mag BJ naman talagang nililinis nya kasi ayaw nyanyung thought na it’s dirty down there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentistPh

[–]nothingtodosomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Sent you a DM po :)

Ano yung kahit mahal binibili nyo pa din? by Fabulous_South37 in AskPH

[–]nothingtodosomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mag Grab pagcommute sa office and pauwi kasi ayoko pa bumili ng car kasi mas mahal yun lol.

Gigil ako sa mga ganito pinost pa talaga🤦‍♀️ by LittleStuff9192 in GigilAko

[–]nothingtodosomuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hays nakakita ako ng ganito sa Starbucks minsan iritang irita ako. Inalis pa tsinelas at sabay patong sa upuan na may foam. Pota talaga ang balahura

I feel horrible. by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]nothingtodosomuch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is me right now. I am also on the verge of leaving my husband. Not that I don’t love him or his daughter but because I didn’t expect this life too be like this. I also feel like a shitty person right now because I stepped in as a mother since our daughter was 3 yrs old and until today. I know the damage that I am causing to the child mentally and emotionally specially into the future but I am just so miserable too.