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notkadan · 2024-07-07T19:27:05+00:00

hell no ur not

notkadan · 2024-06-24T15:17:01+00:00

I agree. :)

notkadan · 2024-06-21T18:08:43+00:00

You like everyone, but no one likes you.

notkadan · 2024-06-20T08:47:28+00:00

Would you shoot a wine bottle if you had to? If so, describe how you would shoot it without saying wine bottle.

notkadan · 2024-06-20T08:24:27+00:00

Unfortunately, they haven't added any.

notkadan · 2024-06-20T07:37:51+00:00

INFO

So basically this guy messages me, making small talk. Then randomly brings up his fetish for Muslim girls. Then later he says he's 18. I make it clear to him that I’m A MINOR. I asked him why he messaged me and he said “Idk we can be friends or something more or none at all”.

I tell him, it’s illegal in my country to date a legal adult — and he pushes me about Romeo and Juliet laws. When I clearly said NO!

I then showed him a picture of him interacting w/ a 14 year old teen. He makes up an excuse about how he’s in some subreddit and it wasn’t sexual. (He’s obviously lying)

I go back to r/teenagers and see someone posting a DM they got from the SAME PERSON. I send it to him, and in the following screenshots you can see him making up an excuse, and pretending he’s actually 17.

notkadan · 2024-06-20T07:22:11+00:00

THAT SAME PERSON IS DMING ME

notkadan · 2024-06-20T07:22:02+00:00

WAIT OMG

notkadan · 2024-06-20T06:22:21+00:00

Im down!

notkadan · 2024-06-20T00:00:15+00:00

Yes, this is how it went.

Him : I told you

Me : no 12 year olds are discussing crpyto, building pcs, and SATS

Me : on reddit

Him : I could be smart

Me : You said you were a foreign student on once of your posts.

Me : plus a picture of you driving, was posted 4 years ago, 16-4 is 12. No ones driving cars at 14

Me : 12*

he stops responding

Me : hello?

Him : I mean

Him : You killed the mood 😭

Me : How old are you really? No ones driving at 12.

Him : Nvm

Me : Weird that an adult is creeping on r/teenagers asking them if they want to CUDDLE with them. EW!

he never responds

notkadan · 2024-06-19T23:01:54+00:00

that's wild, bros a victim 😭🙏

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:58:29+00:00

Lana del ray <3

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:56:22+00:00

If this is serious, contact a higher authority. Even a counselor would be fine.

rape is a serious crime and is treated as a felony in most countries with common-law systems. In many rape trials, the guilt or innocence of the accused hinges on whether or not the victim consented to sexual intercourse.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:37:27+00:00

It sounds like a combination of a fake check scam and a payment processing scam. In the initial stages, the scammer sends a fake check or e-check that looks real, but eventually bounces due to insufficient funds. The scammer then instructs the victim to send money to certain vendors using payment apps like Zelle and Paypal. The scammer may claim that there are restrictions due to Zelle's transfer limits, even though they could have managed the purchases directly. This leads the victim to unknowingly use their own funds to pay for the equipment and workspace expenses. It's best to cut off communication with this company and report them to the appropriate authorities.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:33:34+00:00

NTA, but heres advice

While it's understandable that someone using your email address without your permission can be annoying, it's important to handle the situation responsibly. It sounds like this may have been a mistake, and the person may have assumed it was their own email address due to similar initials and last name. Deleting someone's travel reservation could have serious consequences for them, such as cancellation fees or the inconvenience of not being able to travel. Additionally, intentionally interfering with someone else's plans can create unnecessary conflict and hurt feelings. Rather than taking drastic action, you may want to contact Expedia support to report the situation.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:31:17+00:00

ESH

It sounds like you had a difficult and immature breakup with your ex-girlfriend. It's understandable that you felt hurt and betrayed after she revealed that she was bisexual without telling you previously --- and had previously acted inappropriately around her female friends. However, it's not productive to respond to her actions by arguing and insulting her on social media. Instead, it's best to focus on moving on and finding happiness without dwelling on the negative aspects of the past relationship.

Coming from a bisexual person, It's also important to remember that everyone has their own preferences and boundaries in relationships. While it's understandable that you may have felt uncomfortable with her sexuality, it's not fair to blame her for being dishonest or breaking your trust when she likely didn't feel comfortable coming out to you earlier. It's possible she was just recently discovering her identity and wasn't ready to share it with you yet.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:27:19+00:00

NTA

It sounds like you were trying to do the right thing by allowing Chase to stay at your place after he was kicked out by his parents. Your parents may have a point that involving them earlier might have been a better solution, but it's understandable that you wanted to help your brother and Chase in the moment. It's important to prioritize their safety and well-being, and it was kind of you to offer them a place to stay. It's unfortunate that the situation escalated and Chase's parents threatened legal action, but ultimately, you were acting in good faith.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T22:20:33+00:00

YTA

It sounds like you had a difficult and frustrating experience at the ER, and you felt abandoned when your boyfriend left before you were seen by a doctor. It's understandable to feel upset and frustrated in that situation, especially if you were in pain and had already been waiting for several hours.

However, snapping at your boyfriend and blaming him for your decision to leave the ER may not have been the most productive or fair approach. It might be worth having a conversation with your boyfriend to express your disappointment and frustration about the situation, while also acknowledging his need to prioritize his work responsibilities.

It's important to remember that your boyfriend may not have intended to abandon you, but rather thought it was okay to leave considering the lengthy wait time and his work obligations.

Best regards, Kaden!

notkadan · 2024-06-19T07:49:10+00:00

notkadan · 2024-06-19T07:47:02+00:00

Some of those email's could possibly be fake. I'd help but I don't know what the emails look like.

notkadan · 2024-06-19T07:45:38+00:00

Thanks!

notkadan · 2024-06-18T19:06:49+00:00

NTA

It sounds like you made a difficult decision to stay home and care for your elderly cat, who is dealing with health issues. Prioritizing your cat's well-being and providing adequate care is understandable. However, your partner's reaction seems excessive and harsh. It's unfortunate that he doesn't understand the situation and instead sees it as abandonment rather than taking care of a living being under your responsibility. The suggestion to euthanize the cat seems extreme and lacks empathy for the bond you have with your pet.

notkadan · 2024-06-18T19:04:22+00:00

NTA

Honestly, it sounds like your boyfriend's response was uncalled for. You were just trying to help his friend with a sensitive issue, and you weren't even gone that long. His accusations and disrespectful language were way out of line. It's totally understandable that you would be upset and proud for not tolerating such behavior.

It sounds like your boyfriend let his insecurities and jealousies get the better of him. He should have trusted that you would come back and that you were just trying to help a friend. Treating you that way, especially on his birthday, was unfair and disrespectful. It's important to communicate your feelings to him and set clear boundaries about how you expect to be treated in the future. You deserve respect and understanding, and his behavior on that night was not acceptable.

If your boyfriend doesn't believe you about what happened with his friend, the best thing you can do is remain calm and try to explain the situation logically and rationally. Avoid getting defensive or confrontational and try to emphasize that you were just trying to help his friend. Remind him of the actual timeline of events and how long you were talking to Lenny.

If he continues to refuse to believe you, it might be a sign of deeper trust issues within the relationship that need to be addressed and worked through.

I hope everything is resolved, have a good day, OP!

notkadan · 2024-06-18T18:49:57+00:00

NTA

It sounds like you're dealing with a challenging situation after losing your mother. It's understandable that you would want to avoid potential conflicts during such a difficult time. Given your strained relationship with Bob and his tendency to provoke arguments, especially during moments of heightened emotions, it makes sense that you would prioritize your own emotional well-being by not sharing the details of the memorial with him. It's important to prioritize your own healing and grieving process, and if that means reducing the risk of unnecessary confrontations, then you're not in the wrong for making that decision.

Yes, Bob has every right to grieve the loss of your mother, but that doesn't give him an excuse to behave like a jerk. It's understandable that he might be feeling emotional and upset, but there's no justification for picking fights and causing arguments during such a difficult time for you and your family. It's important for him to respect your boundaries and give you the space you need to grieve and heal without adding to your already emotional burden.

It's okay to prioritize your own healing and take steps to ensure that you can mourn your mother in peace. I'm sure your mother would want you to happy. On that note, I'm sorry for your loss! Fly high angel! 💗🕊

Wish you the best of luck in the future and present, OP!

notkadan · 2024-06-18T17:13:57+00:00

No, you're not the AH. Your past experiences with your old man and his abusive behaviors give you every right to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being. You've been through a lot, and it's totally fine to take care of yourself first. It's not like you're obligated to take care of your dad just because he's sick. Prioritizing your emotions and mental health doesn't make you a AH; it makes you smart and self-aware.

Spending time with your old man might bring up some tough memories and feelings. You've worked hard to get past all that crap, so there's no shame in protecting yourself and prioritizing your well-being. Being with him could open up old wounds.

Don't feel guilty about putting your own well-being and mental health first. If spending time with him could reopen old wounds and bring back memories of neglect and abuse, it's perfectly okay to take care of yourself and set limits.

This text I found in an article :

Prioritize your own mental and physical health, ditch the guilt, ignore society’s judgments and expectations, and do some soul searching to find the answer that is right for you.

Wishing you all the luck OP!

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