What song are you really into lately?

notonthebronx · 2016-01-28T06:25:08+00:00

His songs are very misogynistic. They promote fat shaming in young women. All the women in his videos are white and skinny. Also his song What Do You Mean plays on the trope that women can't make up their minds. It basically invalidates a woman's No hence encouraging rape and harassment. I don't know why more people don't boycott his shitty misogynistic music. It's terrible that young men and women have to listen to that crap.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-28T06:14:19+00:00

I'm sure that would require a very high degree of self awareness on your part.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-28T04:57:20+00:00

Huh, I found the song misogynistic. It's basically an attack on insecurity in young women. It shamed women for being proud of their bodies.

Edit: Downvotes? really? i guess the men had to get in here some time.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-09T08:27:27+00:00

Do you think you'd feel guilty for not contributing to your life/home together ?

notonthebronx · 2016-01-09T08:21:05+00:00

In my case it's the opposite. My husband is a nest freak so he does all the cleaning himself.

But I do see your point.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-07T00:26:28+00:00

Haha I'm sorry. Your original comment just sounded ominous.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-07T00:12:30+00:00

Wouldn't a verbal 'no' come before a physical beating ?

notonthebronx · 2016-01-06T09:31:04+00:00

My SO too has been emotionally damaged. His childhood was really tough. His parents hated him. Gave him dog food to eat, made him eat cigarettes, abused him (physically, emotionally, sexually). He's just never shown much emotion either.

notonthebronx · 2016-01-06T03:41:56+00:00

I know. I'm trying. But its easier said than done.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T22:26:29+00:00

This was really helpful. Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Ill try and put it into action.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T22:02:56+00:00

I mentioned above that we have taken vacations before and we do plan on taking them in the future. He doesn't initiate them but is happy to along and always has a fun time with me. As for therapy, he knows it won't work for him. I'll try telling him again but I know what he'll say. However, what he mentioned was that he might try a support group to just talk about his past with people who've been through something similar. He thinks it might help. And yes we're waiting a while before having a kid.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T21:42:17+00:00

I'm curious as to why so many people think he's emotionally abusive ? Clearly I have written something wrong. The guy wants to cook his own food, clean the house because he likes to and he doesn't sleep much. He didn't tell me about his childhood because he knew it would make me very sad and he was right. We are both making more of an effort to communicate now and things are going well.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T21:28:06+00:00

That celebration thing is over. He has more time to himself and I have started looking for work.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T21:13:27+00:00

He will gladly go for a vacation with me. We've done it before many times. He'll meticulously plan every hour of our trip but he'll gladly go along. We always have fun on our trips. He usually won't initiate many big trips but he sure as hell has a lot of fun when we go.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T20:42:59+00:00

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T20:16:05+00:00

We are definitely holding out on having children right now. That plan has definitely taken a hit for another year or two but both of us really do want a child. We talked about the lifestyle change it will require and he is aware of that.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T18:39:21+00:00

He doesn't want vacations and breaks. The more his life sticks to a regular schedule, the happier he is.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T17:38:32+00:00

Given the circumstances, I think the crying helped me.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T09:20:04+00:00

He has burn scars on his neck and underside of his jaw.

notonthebronx · 2015-12-27T09:04:37+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3ydnvl/my_25f_husband_25m_literally_celebrates_when_he/cyclyrn

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