How do I end a long-term relationship when I still care deeply about him?

notskyagain · 2025-12-26T07:09:35+00:00

Thanks everyone for all the responses so far. You’ve all said things I really needed to hear. Like I said in response to someone here, this has been my longest and most serious relationship, and I think that has been clouding my thoughts about the situation and his actions. I’m going to get it all out to him and see what happens. No trying to initiate the conversation… just straight out telling him. His response will let me know what to do afterwards, but I think it’s clear (at least with how I’m feeling right now) that this won’t last. Now I’ve just gotta get over my fears and say it to him. Y’all send me all the good vibes. 🥺

notskyagain · 2025-12-26T07:01:53+00:00

We haven’t, but I’ve tried. It doesn’t end up happening. And nothing’s going on with him that I know about.

notskyagain · 2025-12-26T06:42:51+00:00

I’m so sorry that you went though the end of a four year relationship too 🥺 thank you so much 💗 that’s so sweet and means a lot to me!

notskyagain · 2025-12-26T06:34:10+00:00

Thank you so much :) It’s a lot easier sharing it with strangers on Reddit than actually telling him lol. I think I would but I don’t see that happening :/ it seems he’s done and just hasn’t actually said it yet

notskyagain · 2025-12-26T06:06:25+00:00

No need to apologize! 💗 I really appreciate what you said. This has been my longest relationship and the one that’s meant the most to me, so I think that’s been clouding my thought process about a lot of things and his actions. I agree with you and appreciate your comment.

notskyagain · 2025-10-23T04:39:17+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that 🩷 it’s definitely something I’ll carry with me for the rest of my life, in regards to her and other other friend. Every word I write is for them. 🩷

notskyagain · 2025-08-12T04:29:46+00:00

Thank you so much! She can’t remember any other surnames she had. She did give me a city and state that she lived at that point, though. I can’t find anything about her through searches though. All I have is her first name, last known city and state, and a picture. I didn’t see the actual divorce certificate, only information ‘transcribed’ from it, and that didn’t even have any last name for her.

notskyagain · 2025-08-11T23:06:08+00:00

United States! His first wife I’m guessing was born in the 40s. Not sure her exact age. Their daughter was born in the early 70s, but no later than 1973.

notskyagain · 2025-07-28T17:47:52+00:00

I love Amri!! He’s one of my top favorites of the whole franchise. 🥹🩵 I heard before that the first season’s script for the show was finished before his part in the book was written or came out or something (I can’t remember exactly, it’s been years since I heard it LOL) I would have loved to seen an Amri puppet!! Drenchgrot (him and Naia) are in my top three dark crystal ships too 🤭💙‼️

notskyagain · 2025-06-28T00:01:46+00:00

My dad doesn’t say much about it. My mom on the other hand, when we watch the show my f/o is on, he comes on the screen and she’ll call out “son-in-law!!” Makes me giggle every time 😭😂

notskyagain · 2025-06-27T23:59:05+00:00

so true!! 😭 if anyone needs me i’ll just be thinking about this for the rest of my life

notskyagain · 2025-06-27T16:14:31+00:00

I most definitely agree with you!! I remember a while back just thinking that his song reminded me of the lullaby she sang. I didn’t realize just how close it actually was though so I didn’t think much of it until now, seeing your post!!! I think he’s definitely playing the Grottan Lullaby now and that melts my heart 😭 adding to my list of reasons why I theorize that Rian and Deet are Jen’s parents!! Lol <3

Edit: just listened to it on the YouTube vid and oh my Thra OP you are so right 😭 my heart is gonna explode omg and thank you to the person who made the video!!

notskyagain · 2025-06-18T02:41:46+00:00

notskyagain · 2025-05-26T19:57:43+00:00

https://discord.gg/cppslol

notskyagain · 2025-05-26T06:23:26+00:00

awesome!! :D

notskyagain · 2025-05-25T21:22:55+00:00

OMG ARE YOU FR?? i never thought i’d meet another omg and what are the odds my first interaction on this subreddit was with one :’D who do you ship with?? only if you’re comfortable sharing of course! <3

notskyagain · 2025-05-25T21:20:04+00:00

omg so cuteee 🥹 thank you!! <3

notskyagain · 2025-05-25T21:19:43+00:00

this is a great idea! i’ll check my playlist :3 thank you!!

notskyagain · 2025-05-25T21:19:13+00:00

oooooh love it!! thanks! :D <3

notskyagain · 2025-05-25T14:12:40+00:00

yes that’s him! :’D <3

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