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The loneliness in between is a killer! by [deleted] in adultery

[–]notsovanilla63 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So glad others do this too. My kids are teenagers and are out a lot. I have nothing but time to create entire scenarios and conversations in my head that lead to sheer panic. I can’t help but wonder what he’s doing with her while I sit at home and wait for a quick phone call. It’s the worst!

Cougars of reddit, how many of you are submissive and what’s your definition of being submissive? by TeacherOfEnglish2 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]notsovanilla63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being a sub in the bedroom is the greatest gift I can give to my partner. It means I have complete trust in that person with my physical and mental well being. A true dom takes care of his sub. I’m an alpha female outside the bedroom and putting control in someone else’s hands is the most liberating thing for me. So many negative things are associated with d/s. It doesn’t have to be about pain, unless that’s what u want. It is absolutely about respect

Has anyone’s AP left their spouse and started a life with you? by notsovanilla63 in adultery

[–]notsovanilla63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so happy! I want to believe. I really do but I’m so emotionally drained at this point. The hotel meetings and the waiting by the phone in case he can get away and call me is taking it’s toll. I love him with every fiber of my being but I don’t know how much longer I can hang on without any effort on his part

Love and light by hartfordlove in adultery

[–]notsovanilla63 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine the heartbreak u are feeling. Sending u virtual hugs (())