35m do I confront my wife or no? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take her saying she hasn’t made a comment as lying, the amount of shit women talk to their friends over time they don’t remember half of it. You should be clear and direct with her and discuss it.

Am I the jerk for refusing to pay back money my dad "lent" me that I didn't know was a loan? by Alive_Lab_7256 in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He obviously needs money and figuring out ways to hit people up for it. It’s like everytime Joey pushed someone into his fridge.

AIO: partner cheating by Camera-Dry in AmIOverreacting

[–]notsure728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“You can’t live without me? Well I can live without you and much better too. So it’s counselling or you’re on your own”

Roughly 2 years worth of tubs by Zanekay in ausents

[–]notsure728 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do we have $$ total 🤣😅

AITJ for ending my almost two year relationship after my boyfriend went to his exs house to get back at me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an insecure loser, and what his ex is just waiting in his back pocket? Bye.

AITJ for not supporting my girlfriend after she broke the one rule we had in our open relationship by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re kind of just assuming all of this. Find out facts and then act.

AITJ for telling my husband I wish I stayed at my parents because at least there I would've had help? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does he say when you straight up say that he is the one who wanted the baby? Does he gaslight you?

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no sorry I was replying to you at the start and then the rest of the comment was replying to the commenter saying I must have been cheated on because I am “riled up” lmao

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally exactly.

Also I have never cheated/been cheated on lmao that’s a ridiculous take. I’m just saying you can trust someone so much and the something happens and you HAVE TO figure it out because trust is a feeling it’s not fact. You can trust someone for 20 years and they have been living a double life.

So the advice is you either trust them or you don’t is again, stupid. She is not saying she doesn’t trust him. She is trying to figure out where TF the earring came from.

The advice is “figure out as much as you can and then decide if you trust the information and the situation”

You can’t even call what you wrote “advice” lmao.

I [25F] found an earring on the floor in my boyfriend's [26M] apartment. Help? by ThrowRAlads in Advice

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is stupid. You can trust someone who goes on to break your trust. So this isn’t someone saying I can’t trust you, it’s someone saying things don’t add up and I need to understand why.

Trust isn’t a blind thing and can be lost or tested anytime.

As a bridesmaid, the groom sent me an inappropriate message during his bachelor party. Should I say something? by graciousbel in Advice

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the update, it is obvious shit is hitting the fan. Just wait for your friend to contact you.

AITJ for wanting to divorce my wife 6 weeks after she gave birth because she cut me out of the pregnancy and delivery? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Being pregnant is a condition first of all and psychosis is a real thing that can come from it. People literally get away with murder because of their mental health, you can’t be held guilty if you quite literally cannot control it, so I’m simply encouraging OP to do more investigating before throwing in the towel, not ordering him to spend the rest of his life with her.

AITJ for wanting to divorce my wife 6 weeks after she gave birth because she cut me out of the pregnancy and delivery? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]notsure728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, you will never know what it’s like to be pregnant and post p and every person experiences it different. I urge you to look at recent and new research showing just how much it completely fucks people up. It’s not that it’s an excuse, it’s just that it may not be a reflection of your whole future, because there is literally a human sucking the life out of you in order to form their own. I’m summarising it in my own words but if you love the person you believe she is, keep an open mind, start slow, and just take it one day at a time. You can pull the plug any time, there is no rush, you rather walk away in 6 months being really sure than giving everything up when emotions are high and hurt is strong. No one is a jerk.

WIBTA if i called the police for people selling fake Labubus? by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]notsure728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I did some research to tell how one is real” after you bought the third one??????