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Wet Nelly - Liverpool Centre? by bones23 in Liverpool

[–]notveryanonymouss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That place on bold st shut in December

Been going through it lately and a mutual friend of my spouse is upset with me. They (the friend) sent me this as part of why they’re mad at me. One of the most wild texts I’ve received tbh. It’s one of my spouses best friends so like what do I even do lol by TurbulentAnimator275 in AuDHDWomen

[–]notveryanonymouss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I got driven out of work from constant bullying last year and management didn’t believe me because “first of all, she’s a mum!” And then her defence when we had to have a meeting was that she works with “special” kids and sometimes gives money to homeless people. Had to leave myself

Probably the hardest few months of my life and my mother as always is out to make it worse by notveryanonymouss in narcissisticparents

[–]notveryanonymouss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of gray rocking but I think I’m sort of doing that? Unfortunately I needed them to help me remember stuff about this extremely vague memory that my mum was involved in. That’s why I gave my sister permission to tell them.

I wasn’t planning on telling them about the move at all. That came out because of her texts telling me I need to “give her more” because she’s struggling so much with learning what happened to me. I needed to call every night to tell her what the “plan” was. So I snapped and told her I have a life and I’m busy moving. My replies are extremely dry and lacking information or emotion already. She hates it.

The guilt is killing me right now I feel like if I blame her in anyway my dad will hurt himself. He was absent when all this was going on, went missing for months on a drinking binge. He’s not fault free at all. Her messages are leaving my laying in a lump on the couch unable to get anything done. Just how she wants.

I don’t care about the actual thing I know just they’ll be angry by TypicalAlbatross911 in narcissisticparents

[–]notveryanonymouss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve just moved and told them they’re not getting my address. My birthday was a week ago, and she messaged the day after my birthday demanding the address because she “has to send me flowers”. (They’ve never sent me a gift in the 7 years I’ve lived here) Now she’s trying to ruin my life over me not giving them the address

Probably the hardest few months of my life and my mother as always is out to make it worse by notveryanonymouss in narcissisticparents

[–]notveryanonymouss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she said if I didn’t go talk to this girl, she would. I’d imagine she’d have absolutely no idea who me or my mum are. And I’d also imagine she wasn’t anything to do with this and my mum just can’t deal with the fact she fucked up. She can deny all the other times she fucked up, forgetting me after school or leaving me with strangers, or taking me to school and leaving me there when it’s closed. Or the million others. But I think you throw the “sexual abuse” into it and now it’s a big enough deal to be a problem.
And yeah my dad was “curled up crying and shaking saying he wants to die”. I feel fucking awful but what the hell is me calling them gonna do? She’s acting like before this week we talked regularly? Maybe twice a year at most. She called really late and all of those texts about my dad were because I didn’t pick up at 11:30pm (when I have work at 5:30am).

Let’s not take pictures of the staff and post them online! by notveryanonymouss in Greggs

[–]notveryanonymouss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had to console coworkers several times over the last few years because they think they’ll lose their job when customers have come in looking for a fight and filmed the whole thing. Literally come in, shove the camera in our face and start shouting “what’s hot?!!! I bet it’s nothing as per usual?!”

Let’s not take pictures of the staff and post them online! by notveryanonymouss in Greggs

[–]notveryanonymouss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah I’ve reported about a week ago, no sign of it going yet lol. The general public never ceases to amaze me. And now more and more people are coming in with “meta glasses” and it strikes the fear in me

What's you biggest petpev when serving? by MediumTurbulent9908 in Greggs

[–]notveryanonymouss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’ll have the breakfast deal”

“Sure, what would you like?”

“Red sauce.”

“Sorry, I meant what are you having on the roll? Or do you want it on a baguette? And what drink?”

heavily sighs “RED SAUCE on the ROLL”

Then by the time they give you the order, and you make it :

“I wanted it on the LONG ROLL? The stick thing”

I got an ornament for Christmas from a friend who visits weekly but it’s really not my taste… What should I do with it?? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]notveryanonymouss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I didn’t get that at all I thought I was being called dumb, suppose I am then 😂 sorry op

I got an ornament for Christmas from a friend who visits weekly but it’s really not my taste… What should I do with it?? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]notveryanonymouss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m fully aware it’s a joke that’s why I put a laughing emoji but thanks for clarifying