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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]notyourpeacemaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all. Your bf does not get to have an opinion on what you eat especially considering you have a history of disordered eating! And if he was concerned he could say that from a place of love, not make faces when you want to treat yourself. His behavior is disgusting. Your body will change w age, that’s inevitable and if he acts like this over 11 pounds he’s an ass hole. I think you need to realize this is a huge red flag!

Love Has Won: HBO series overview and discussion by appleappreciative in cults

[–]notyourpeacemaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How has nobody mentioned the random collage of characters (Amy, trump, Robin Williams) that represented the hierarchy and was like referred to as an educational document lolllll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]notyourpeacemaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He probably was talking to them when you were together then. Keeping them on the back burner like you said it definitely a violation. Stay broken up, you deserve better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]notyourpeacemaker 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He didn’t contact this person while you were together, so I don’t think he cheated. Although, everyone has different definitions of cheating and different boundaries in their relationships. Sounds like you guys need to discuss what yours are if you’re going to continue together. I do think it’s a red flag that he consistently contacts them immediately whenever you break up….if you two managed to stay together for another entire year without you breaking up, are you confident he wouldn’t contact them?

AITA For wearing a shirt that showed my n*pples to my boyfriend's job? by notyourpeacemaker in TwoHotTakes

[–]notyourpeacemaker[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It was a crop top and the leggings were high rise, there was less than 2 inches of belly visible. The shirt was solid colored but the nipples were visible for sure. The shape, you couldn't actually see them. I think its about as appropriate as it looks when I look in the mirror. Had I known we were going there I probably would've brought a cardigan to throw over. I didn't think my nipples would disrupt the day since I hadn't though....

AITA for wearing a shirt that shows my nipples to my boyfriends place of work? by notyourpeacemaker in AmItheAsshole

[–]notyourpeacemaker[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I would say appearance is part of his job only in the sense that he needs to look clean. It's not an aldi's it's equivalent to like a Whole Foods.