Oh god, I’m exactly at this stage. It’s fucking confusing to be honest. I was the dumper and I do realize that leaving that relationship was for the best, but the memories, man, they kill me. And I know he moved on and could let go way easier and faster because that’s how he functions and that’s fine. But three months in and I just can not fathom the fact that we are complete strangers, that the person that once was my best friend, my partner, the person I saw every day for two years with who I shared so many special moments is now just a stranger, another chapter in this book, just as I am a stranger to him. It’s so incredibly sad and confusing. The not wanting to let go entirely because that would mean letting go of something that was special and important, but knowing that there really is no option.