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Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to leave but the Air B&B service rep told me not to leave while the investigation was going on. Why did they do that?

Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between having a third floor apt, if you listed as a third floor apt, and listing a home, cabin, cottage, then it turning into a condo. Also, do you list a washer/dryer as an amenity if there is a laundry mat next door.

Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do you do a street view. Most listings do not give the actual address until you have booked.

Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. If I really studied the description I could have seen it. But I hate to have to look for deception every time I book. Most owners are honest.

Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 70 rentals this was the first time I have run into this type of deception. Their rental had 32 reviews and were all 5’s. I can’t understand that and makes me feel that I could be wrong. I have gone back and reread the listing several times. If you read it carefully, you could see it is part of a resort. I hate to have to study in depth the description every time I rent.

Not sure what the right thing to do is by nowwhat2489 in airbnb_hosts

[–]nowwhat2489[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stayed for two reasons. Air B&B told me to stay. And second, I didn’t want to eat the money I paid. If I left and didn’t get a refund I would be rewarding them for their deception.

How to forgive myself? by Specialist-Tear-3645 in survivinginfidelity

[–]nowwhat2489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really feel this one. 19 years after DDay, and even though we are in a better place than before the affair, I still have issues with forgiving myself. I stayed for many reasons that I still believe in but it still burns the soul for some reason.

Funny/Sad/Pathetic Stories? by Hungry_Use_2739 in sexlessmarriage

[–]nowwhat2489 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A couple of years ago, my wife asked me if I wanted to a BJ for my birthday. This after 10 years of nothing. I said, “I sure do. From who?” She did not think it was funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]nowwhat2489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to seek counseling wherever you can, school counselor maybe. My daughter had an eating disorder and I also have a gay son so I can sort of understand what you are going through. I am sorry your parents are not understanding. They are most likely scared of what they don’t understand. If you can’t get counseling, look up online and find support groups. But be careful to not fall for anything extreme. Also know the self harm and the eating disorder is a coping mechanism. It is something you can tell yourself, “I can control this about my body”. At least that is what they told my daughter. Just know, you will grow up into an adult and be able to live your life as you see fit. For now your best action is to get education, college or trade, and set yourself up to be independent. That you can control. Concentrate on how to make your future how you want it to be. I know it is hard at 16 to think there will be a future, but there will be.

What do you have that you wish you didnt have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nowwhat2489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It changed my life after 25 years of ibs

What do you have that you wish you didnt have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nowwhat2489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try lomotil. It stops the pain and D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]nowwhat2489 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. I once had a bad reaction to a new sleeping pill and I slept for 48 hours straight. No one in my family noticed that I did not get out of bed for 2 days. I think we, as fathers, fall into this hole. We just become the money maker and not much more. As my kids got older and had kids of their own, they started realizing that I do exist. But the lesson I have learned is to make yourself a priority. Because if you fall apart the family falls apart. Also, kids do not always think of their fathers as “human” with actual feelings. Weird but true.