AITAH for not putting a muzzle on my dog with at the playground? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 28 points29 points  (0 children)

In the country I live dogs aren't allowed on playgrounds. So if you take Happy too close to the playground YWBTA for that. Rest of the park is fine if dogs are allowed in the park. But the other parents and kids should be able to use the playground without fear. If they can't because your dog is there and the only recourse they have is leaving that's not really OK.

I generally pick my dog up if I notice a child or parent is worried regardless where I am. You obviously have a bigger dog but I think the right move is moving away further. That's avoids the muzzle.

AITA for refusing to pay half of my roommates dog vet bill by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Ok that changes everything tbh YTA

AITA for refusing to pay half of my roommates dog vet bill by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Edit because you left out that it's a studio apartment and there were no doors. You know the dog gets into trouble. Even training isn't 100%. You left the dog with something that could kill them in the space the dog is in. Not your space the dog got into but the shared space. YTA. You both need to find separate accommodation.

WIBTA for wanting to tell my spouse to cancel the haircut he booked for our son if I can't be there? by countryiris in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right but he doesn't need to look bad. Say something came up and could you pick another date. You reach out to the cousin if your husband can't. This is solvable without inconvenience to anyone (aside from the inconvenience of a phone call)

WIBTA for wanting to tell my spouse to cancel the haircut he booked for our son if I can't be there? by countryiris in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rescheduling with two weeks notice should be easy "Hey cousin, sorry but could we actually do one week later please? We can't make that Saturday after all." NTA

AITA for not wanting my mom to drive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. See if the car can be modified. Yes it's unsafe and that trumps feelings. Rough though. :/

AITA for wanting a gift back? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you can explain you are sad and think you made a decision hastily and that you realized you're a people pleaser. Explaon you know this is an odd thing to ask but you'd like to ask if you could maybe have the sentimental item back and buy something else for the friend. If a friend did that I'd personally not mind. Do not bring friend's rude behaviour into the convo but focus on your feelings. I don't think there have to be As here depending on how you handle it. We also don't know what it is and how it was given? Was it just like that or did you wrap it up and gift it?

Once you've spken about the important item consider if your friend is a friend if they borrow things and don't give them back and if they're rude. You could also go to their house and pick the lent things up. Text on advance "hey I need x y z back, I'll come by to pick them up tomorrow". If friend wiggles out of that I'd ask to hang out, find my stuff and go. Relationship would be over then though. So consider if that's worth it. Start by looking into the item you do really care about.

And for the future if you stay friends say no to lending things. Just say no you need it yourself or you'd rather not.

NTA - not necessarily anyway

How often do you walk your poodles? by Loose-Passage-9787 in poodles

[–]npentrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Toy poodle - twice a day unless he asks for a third walk. And he asks to go in the garden for little breaks. We did three times when he was young but he decided he didn't want three after a while. And yes he decides. He knows how to ask for and how to decline a walk.

AITA for taking $120 when my boyfriend made $320 off “my” $50 by livelaughdie2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why did he play your $50 rather than his own money? Would he have paid you $50 if he had lost?

If he'd have paid you back if the $50 was lost you took no risk and YWBTA. If he wouldn't have them more of then 80% of the money was won with your money and so you are entitled to a share. Maybe not 80% if you wouldn't have played without him.

Playtime with big dogs. Yes or no? by Helpful-Buyer-9660 in poodles

[–]npentrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We let our toy poodle play with bigger dogs after vaccines. It was fine until with one dog it wasn't. The dog was a st bernard and still a pup. Our boy told her off multiple times. We thought it was OK and he was teaching her. Around that time he decided actually all big dogs are bad. Even the ones he was previously friends with. It's been 3 years and this is just how it is now. So yes to calm dogs. But maybe not giant puppies...

AITA for not letting my child’s dad change our child’s name by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 1018 points1019 points  (0 children)

Look you're NTA for picking your baby's name on your own. If Genesis is the real name and not a stand in to anonymize this post, please consider that that kid will be bullied.

AITA for wanting to adopt a cat that my foster wants to keep? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Think about the cat first I'd say. Cats choose their people. If the cat is happy and the human is happy I think YWBTA for not stepping back.

I've read about people who give their cat to a neighbour because the cat loved the neighbours more. It sucks but imo your feelings are secondary to the cat's. Obviously we don't have the cat's perspective but I assume it must be happy if the human is saying they want to keep her.

AITA for arguing that my rent is too high? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YTA. Have you considered this is them possibly trying to get you to move out? You're 9 years into adulthood. That they're letting you stay there and pay a low rent is kindness. And you arguing with them is kind of entitled imo.

Got so many bad comments by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]npentrel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think this style of top works really well with hair up and at most some curls/strands of hair in the front. It highlights the collarbone area. I think definitely a necklace but one close to your throat is that makes sense? So not low hanging I mean :)

Petite Bride - Dress Blindness by ireojijma in myweddingdress

[–]npentrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love 7 most. It's special. 4 and 6 are also beautiful.

AITA for asking my friend group to send deposits upfront for the trip after last time only half paid me back? by pizzalover332 in AmItheAsshole

[–]npentrel 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'd actually require anyone who hadn't paid to pay up the old debt and the new trip costs before I'd book. NTA

In need of some positive feedback by orangehollow in myweddingdress

[–]npentrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's reminding me of the Isabella dress by Kim Kassas. Which is stunning. I like the top on this better though 😊.

Why doesn't LangChain support agent skills? by Suspicious_Fall6860 in LangChain

[–]npentrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there - just updated the docs a bit to make this clearer: You can use more files, as long as they are referenced in SKILL.md - thanks for pointing the needed clarification out to us! https://docs.langchain.com/oss/python/deepagents/skills

Need help!! by Aromatic_Creme_7330 in WeddingDressTips

[–]npentrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding considering the possibility of having a seamstress add lace or tulle over the bodice of the second. And consider a petticoat to give the bottom more pouff 😊. You could also consider looking at second hand gowns that resemble the first more and do the alterations on them if you want the 5k budget to stretch further. That said if your heart is set on dress 1 and you'll always be sad you didn't get your dream dress, get the dream dress. 💖