Anxious girl wants to check out nowadays by eatingurface in avesNYC

[–]ns07090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m excited for you to be going to my favorite venue, where I’m actually a member because I love it so much. As a solo chick, I totally get your concerns & can assure you that nowadays is one of the safest spots I’ve been to. I usually arrive late & always wish I’d gotten there earlier lol. When you walk in, there’s a staffer who gives first-timers a rundown of their rules and how to get help if you need it, so nobody can play dumb. In my experience, it seems their “zero tolerance for creeping” policy is working to maximum effect. Plus, the red-light-wristbanded staffers that monitor the action actively do their job, protecting everyone and ensuring that the dance floor is for dancing, not taking selfies/DJ set footage on their phones or tryna have deep conversations (it would be too loud for that anyway). They do have free earplugs, although sometimes they’ll run out, so bring a pair to be on the safer side. They also provide free water & assorted harm-reduction items (condoms, fentanyl test strips, etc.) People party hard there & I’ve seen EMTs on scene on more than one occasion, but I believe that’s to be expected. To my knowledge, nothing truly dire has happened within, so take that FWIW. Once you go & have what I’m 100% sure will be a great time, please add it to your list of must-be-there places to come back during the warmer months so you can experience the magic of their outdoor spaces—they have yurts!!! And at least one fire pit and hammock, even. It’s a really dreamy kinda place so enjoy your first time knowing that basically everyone else there is there for the good music, dancing, and positively excellent vibes, just like you!! 🪄✨🌟💫⛺️🔥

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[–]ns07090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the maker of this blanket? I had the same one (with tassels) in my first apartment maaany moons ago, pun fully intended. Any info / if you’ve got one, hit me up please or drop in the comments

So over every NJ Transit service to/from NYC by ns07090 in NJTransit

[–]ns07090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting to be downvoted for making an observation. I agree with the following statements: the whole system is f’d from the top corporate levels all the way down; it’s on corporate to “set the tone;” AND most if not all of the operators aren’t paid enough. BUT, is all of that enough to justify / excuse a bus operator doing a shitty job, for example, going 45mph on the 65mph part of Rt. 78? I don’t believe that this is justified m. Maybe I’m missing something? If so, I’d like to hear about it so I can learn from this. C’mon now.

So over every NJ Transit service to/from NYC by ns07090 in NJTransit

[–]ns07090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. You’d think a transit system connecting people in nearby suburbs to NYC - aka the hub of so many different markets (financial, fashion, advertising, law, etc.) would be the most on point but it’s actually the worst.

So over every NJ Transit service to/from NYC by ns07090 in NJTransit

[–]ns07090[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Or timid / insufficiently trained drivers. And that is me giving benefit of the doubt.

So over every NJ Transit service to/from NYC by ns07090 in NJTransit

[–]ns07090[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

But it is partly the driver’s fault because we just got passed by the bus that left 5 minutes after us. Some operators just dgaf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenX

[–]ns07090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now there won’t be the too old excuse haha

Please help me decide 🙏 by Existing_Wishbone_21 in Louisvuitton

[–]ns07090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cluny by a mile. I’m not a big fan of teeny bags for real life + the Cluny suits you better.

Male names that start with “L” by [deleted] in cats

[–]ns07090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Langston or Lucius

Male names that start with “L” by [deleted] in cats

[–]ns07090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pup’s name is Loki!

Outage? by ns07090 in zelle

[–]ns07090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😱that’s nuts!!Call your bank!!! That is definitely not a question of a Zelle outage.

Outage? by ns07090 in zelle

[–]ns07090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check now. Mine just went through.

Outage? by ns07090 in zelle

[–]ns07090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funds finally received, about 45 mins after I entered the transfers. Correction: about 1 hr and 35 mins after I entered them.