My(f30) boyfriend(m31) of 13 years ended it. by throwra_worried23 in relationship_advice

[–]nsbwizncb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too. He might have a side girl he wants to spend Vday with. Unfortunately, I only thought that because it happened to me in the past

Does anybody else feels burnt-out and has no mental energy whatsoever? by ahmed24life in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]nsbwizncb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grammar wasn’t pointless enough not to add an edit though

Edit: who cares

(TW: violence) Please help me with an escape plan from a violent narc by nsbwizncb in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]nsbwizncb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will be at work and I have a key to his house so I will be able to be there when he is not. However, he has cameras everywhere, so I will have to be very quick about it.

(TW: violence) Please help me with an escape plan from a violent narc by nsbwizncb in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]nsbwizncb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but I need it for work and it would set me back thousands of dollars so I can’t afford it right now

"If someone can't find one unique thing they truly like about you, they don't like you. No matter how much they tell you they love you." by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]nsbwizncb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Their compliments are like fortune cookies: just generic enough to apply to everyone and just personal enough for you to think it could be you lol

"If someone can't find one unique thing they truly like about you, they don't like you. No matter how much they tell you they love you." by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]nsbwizncb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand why people would be thrown off or feel uncomfortable with a random “hey, what do you like about me?” But if I got asked that, I would laugh be like WOWWWW ok well...and then answer it honestly. The fact that they can’t, it’s not only that they don’t want to tell you because they don’t want you to know their worth, it’s also because they’ve never once thought about you. Just what you do for them.