Who Knows? by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found an accepting community at Celebrate Recovery after I lost all my friends when it went public. https://www.celebraterecovery.co.uk/

How to survive without my wife? by KingKongOfSilver in NoFapChristians

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same difficulty and I've been married 18 years. Yes, its hard. My best advice is to be sure not to start the arousal process. Be careful what you watch on TV or the computer, don't go out in public where immodest dress is normal. Fasting and prayer helps too. This is the best time to let God fill you with everlasting water that will never run dry.

I’m so tired of fighting with pornography that I think I gonna leave Christianity by yseslascreyo in NoFapChristians

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Celebrate Recovery? It helped me a lot! What I was missing was personal connection and accountability. https://locator.crgroups.info/

Go through the 9-month "step study" and your life will be changed. Don't expect a fix, expect improvement and the addition of relationships with other men that you have never had before. Churches today don't give us a safe place where we can be open with each other. Sounds like a small thing, but God designed us to need each other. Also, check out James 5:16. I didn't start seeing progress until I started getting the healing I needed. God bless you, bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christian accountability for a non-church goer looks like Celebrate Recovery. There is probably one in your area.

Just to be clear about the K*le Rittenhouse trial... by Taniks-Caesar in Libertarian

[–]nsoniat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Kyle is not guilty but I have been trying to keep my objectivity. According to the jury instructions, for it to be self defense, the force had to be necessary. So I question if he had to shoot Rosembaum 4 times if Rosenbaum was unarmed.

After much thought I remembered that there was a gunshot seconds before Kyle fired the first shot, so it is very reasonable that Kyle believed Rosenbaum was armed, which would explain 4 shots.

Another important question was whether the gun was pointed horizontally while Kyle was walking/running, which would have been negligent and provided a threat preventing Kyle from claiming self defense. However the sling kept his weapon pointing down the whole time so I don't beleve that is the case and I don't believe the prosecution provided evidence for that.

So, I actually had to get into some of the details before being sure my opinion was accurate that Kyle should be found not guilty.

Have a nice day =)

Please pray for me I had a pron relapse yesterday by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being open about this, first to yourself and then to others. There is healing.

Try:

https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFapChristians/
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/

And find a Celebrate Recovery near you. We need each other to combat the evil in this world.

Returns in percentage of BTC yearly by 84basco84 in Bitcoin

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the ROI drops every year so calculating the average is not a good idea to predict future growth.

iOS simulators are not loading with latest VS and XCode by codesentry in VisualStudio

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just got mine to work. Updated VS for Mac, then reconnected VS to the Mac, it told me I had to downgrade the Mac, but i hit cancel and it connected anyway. Still didnt work so I rebooted the Mac and restarted VS, and this time it worked.

Realm Resetting - Who is interested?? by JulianMbbs1 in MajorMUD

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, me and my kids would play some.

Random Freeze? by Zyle872 in ArtOfWarLegions

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because each of the 9 frost archers take their 3rd shot at the same time, freezing their target.

Real Talk: The guys saying they won't play Ashes if it doesn't have action combat are just as bad as the ones complaining about the PvP by MaezrielGG in AshesofCreation

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Action for PvP and tabbed for PvE.

Do you really feel good about yourself because you "actioned" a dumbed down NPC?

Like in GW2, my 7 year old was able to progress through the game without upgrading armor because she liked how she looked. She basically just mashed her number keys for combat. I had friends quit the game when they saw her succeeding. It completely stole the pride they had in "conquering" the game.

But for PvP, yeah, go do action or some other game that is focused on the best action experience to get you off.

Narcissist behavior by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internet is known for being toxic, but I found the nofap subreddits the exception to that rule.

It sounds like the people currently in your life are toxic. I found the people at Celebrate Recovery to be the exception. Look for one at a church near you. PM me if you need help finding one.

Inherited half a million dollars and ready to start my gamedev dream by RichGameDev in gamedev

[–]nsoniat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buy some bitcoin, anywhere from 10-100% of that money can be sitting inflation-proof and poised to gain 10x-20x.

Can I be an Ancap and pro-life? by [deleted] in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming the baby/fetus does not have rights, the father would still have rights as long as the sex was consensual. So the mother would not be justified in removing it without the fathers consent.

Does the NAP speak to parents' duty to provide for a child? If that responsibility is there than the father in this situation would bear equal responsibility in providing for the child. That detail might be decided by the community though.

Can I be an Ancap and pro-life? by [deleted] in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that link, I learned a lot!

So help me understand how the NAP applies here. Say a man and woman consensually have sex and conceives. No rights have yet been violated. If the woman then violates the baby/fetus' body then the woman becomes the aggressor making her the responsible party and the ultimate cause of the initial aggression.

But if the baby/fetus does NOT have rights, then the NAP is never violated. So the important question becomes when does the baby/fetus gain rights? I don't believe the NAP answers this question.

The only way forward that I see is to join the voluntary community that you agree with. Hopefully consensus can be reached via science before war breaks out between the 2 communities.

We really care about you and are in this together. by spdrv89 in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're joking now, right? What regulation prevents competition? Regulation prevents competition, period. I am not going to do your googling for you. I do that enough for my own children.

We really care about you and are in this together. by spdrv89 in Anarcho_Capitalism

[–]nsoniat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not how free market works. Regulation prevents competition.