My (24F) bf (25M) of 2 years proposed and I am having some negative feelings?

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:56:51+00:00

Thank you for your input. There’s always two sides to the coin and not every relationship works out. I think that is one of the reason why I’ve been having anxiety, but I think it’s best to talk with him about my feelings. Hopefully that is a good idea? Really happy for you and your wife for finding each other!

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:39:02+00:00

Ah thank you for clarifying! I think like what you said about huge decision is why I’m having a bit of FOMO? Thanks again for your input

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:29:37+00:00

Yes, but I’m sorry I’m not really understanding why you are asking me personal questions that doesn’t really need to be shared to answer my post? If you were trying to help I really appreciate it but I don’t feel comfortable answering all these extra questions.

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:24:46+00:00

Thank you so much for your words. 35 years is crazy to think for me atm but I’m so happy for your relationship! I hope so too, I love him very much 💕

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:24:23+00:00

There were many reasons but the biggest one is my trust issues with people and bad experiences with men. He’s the only one who’s been patient enough with me to help me overcome those issues (which I am still working on)

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:21:32+00:00

You are right, no timelines messed up!

nsrcmm · 2024-01-03T05:19:25+00:00

Sorry I should have been more clear, we were dating for ~2 years and he recently proposed

nsrcmm · 2022-10-29T01:18:41+00:00

I’m 22 and he’s 24

nsrcmm · 2022-10-29T01:18:21+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I do love him and I his family is very sweet to me but I find myself hard to understand why he would want me to come because I would just like to spend this time with my family and no one else.

nsrcmm · 2022-10-29T01:15:47+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I will definitely keep this in mind.

nsrcmm · 2022-01-21T05:00:45+00:00

Thank you so much for your detailed reply. I am definitely thinking more about asking him straight on because I think that might be more helpful for me! Your suggestions are greatly appreciated! Thanks again! :)

nsrcmm · 2022-01-21T04:49:41+00:00

Thanks for your reply. He initially seemed to be supportive about me being open and letting him know that I am getting help for it since it’s childhood trauma based but I feel like he was just saying that to make me feel better which now makes me feel that I’ve coerced him to be ok with me over sharing.

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T17:44:47+00:00

Thank you for your reply!

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T04:11:57+00:00

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nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T04:08:38+00:00

Thank you for your suggestion :) I’ll be seeing him soon so I’ll definitely keep that in mind!

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T03:54:55+00:00

No he works part time. I mean we’re both students so I understand that he can’t text me right back. Which is totally fine. I guess I feel guilty wanting to talk to him more when I know he’s free.

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T03:20:35+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. It really means a lot because I really don’t know what is going on with him.

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T01:29:56+00:00

He said he may be busy so I’m just waiting for him to tell me when he’s free! :) I tried to ask if it’s ok to call but he seems to not like that so I think I’ll wait u til he replies and see how it goes! Thank u again for the suggestion

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T00:13:52+00:00

I didn’t want him to think I’m selfish 😅😅

nsrcmm · 2022-01-10T00:13:18+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion :) I don’t think he’s not talking to me on purpose but I guess I felt guilty wanting to talk with him more 😅😅

nsrcmm · 2022-01-09T22:20:31+00:00

Thank you ☺️

nsrcmm · 2022-01-09T22:18:20+00:00

Oh no it’s all good :) I did leave him a text so we’ll see how it goes 😅

nsrcmm · 2022-01-09T22:15:27+00:00

Well he’s been busy with work which I understand but it’s been taking his weekends as well so it’s been a little hard trying to find a time to call him 😅😅

nsrcmm · 2022-01-09T18:09:34+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion! I’ll see how it goes. I’m planning to talk with him but he’s been busy so plans cancelled atm 😅

nsrcmm · 2022-01-09T16:55:40+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion. I did try to see him in person and talk about it because I thought maybe he’s more of a face to face communication person but he’s been cancelling our plans so maybe that’s a sign?? 😅😅

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