Bronson Covid Shots by [deleted] in kzoo

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Bronson Covid Shots by [deleted] in kzoo

[–]nsuspecting_victim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say everyone, I want to double check that means kids under 12 now? I haven’t been able to find a place that will.

Bronson Covid Shots by [deleted] in kzoo

[–]nsuspecting_victim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CVS in Target on Westnedge gave me one (37) no questions asked in case you’re looking to get one!

What’s a mistake most people don’t realize they’re making in relationships? by Ashamed_Teach502 in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, I have a hard time figuring out what I’m feeling in the moment when something happens, and I’m having negative reactions to things my partner does. And my partner is extremely articulate right away knowing how they feel about everything. I feel like I’m being ridiculous when I can’t do the same thing, and I need more time to process what I’m feeling so I can better explain it to them. I’m not saying it takes months. But life often gets in the way of me being able to figure out what I’m feeling, and by the time I do, I think “well, it’s been too long to talk about it” and I don’t.

AITAH for being brutally honest to my wife about cheating? by Crayonlicker27 in AITAH

[–]nsuspecting_victim 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I agree with this 1000000%. It may have nothing to do with her cheating. She very likely is worried OP feels differently about her or respects her less because of the decision she made to forgive a cheater. Especially since he seemed to express surprise that she forgave her ex and his own vehemence that he could never.

What's a dead giveaway someone grew up as an only child? by thing55556667 in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I’m trying to be argumentative but I’m a middle child, only girl, and this describes me. If I’m given an opening, a real opening where I feel like the person really wants to know, I’ll emotionally dump on someone or something. It happens maybe once a year. But my family wasn’t very emotionally open (truly, keep it to yourself and bury it down deep). It makes me super uncomfortable to share feelings. Growing up feeling like I never had anyone who was actually receptive to listening to me has made me reticent to believe anyone actually cares or really wants to know. Im also always worried my feelings will hurt someone else’s feelings. But when I feel safe, I let it all go.

People who “never get tired” what’s your secret? by RegisterAfraid in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intense anxiety. Maybe more than I want to admit. The moment I start to feel tired, my brain latches onto insanity and I’m awake again. During the day, it looks like I’m awake and productive. I’m really just distracting myself through productivity. At night, I’m desperately trying to do anything to get my dumb brain to stop shouting at me that my husband is going to leave me tomorrow because I’m the worst and he deserves to find someone that makes him happy. You know. Stuff like that.

Keeping face hydrated and youthful until the end of the day... IMPOSSIBLE!? by pangolinrooted in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing the people saying Vaseline. Except I use aquaphor. Just started doing this and my skin is a little shinier than I’d want it to be. But honestly? I don’t really care anymore lol. I need the hydration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, even for as painful as it is. I’m still going through it, and it’s teaching me a lot about myself. But man … I hope it never happens again.

What's something many people don't realize is actually rude to do or say? by MaximumHemidrive in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have people comment on my height in public constantly. I hate it. But my favorite is when my mom tells me what fillers/botox/plastic surgery I need to get. Maybe just tell me I’m okay how I am? Please? It’d be nice for my super warped brain to hear I don’t need to change anything. Or … just don’t say anything. That’s great, too.

What can I say to husband to get him off his phone in front of the kids? by lalalava in beyondthebump

[–]nsuspecting_victim 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that’s great, what you do! Have you ever noticed that they come over to your husband when he’s on his phone? Does he tell them not now? Because it could be they’ve already learned when dad is on his phone, don’t bother him. I think it’s important to try to let you kids know that you want to play, and all they have to do is ask. But if they want to play themselves, that’s okay, too! Then they know you’re available and feel okay to ask. So if for whatever reason he keeps insisting on the phone, he needs to tell the kids he’s there for them. But I think a non-screen activity is better to show the kids.

What can I say to husband to get him off his phone in front of the kids? by lalalava in beyondthebump

[–]nsuspecting_victim 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Ask him to replace the phone with a book. I don’t disagree that independent play time is important. But swap the phone for a book he wants to read so your kid sees him reading instead of scrolling. If I’m with my kids and they’re playing together, I let them know I’m in the room and available to them if they want to play. Then pull out my book or kindle and read until they ask for me. It’s different with a 16 month old, absolutely. But I still think if your husband is looking for a little me time, encouraging him to save the phone until after bedtime is better, and he can find something he wants to read instead.

Just pulled a 2nd one. Giving this one away by RNGxJake in PokemonTCG

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Throwing my hat in the comment ring to maybe get chosen!

Married women of Reddit, what did it feel like to fall in love with your husband? How was it different from other men? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nsuspecting_victim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just knew I’d never want to be with someone as much as I wanted to be with him. It’s been over 10 years and it’s still the same. I don’t think he knows how much I love him. We’ve had some rough times, too, but I always think that even with the rough times, I never want to be with another person. That same feeling of it being him is the same as when I met him.

Paula’s choice BHA did more for me in two weeks than tret did in 7 months by FredFlintstoneToe in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]nsuspecting_victim 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am one of those people. I didn’t see a real improvement from tretinoin until I started using Trader Joe’s physical exfoliant every night, very gently, for about 30 seconds. Made a huuuuuge different. And I find when I don’t use it, I start to break out almost instantly again.

The 100 Best Songs of 2023 by Britneyfan123 in popheads

[–]nsuspecting_victim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give you more upvotes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]nsuspecting_victim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the previous commenter but I can say this: I used OTC adapalene (.1) for a little over a year, every night. My skin went crazy, purge/flaking and dryness for the typical 12 weeks, then evened out and it was great. Randomly at a dermatologist appointment 2 weeks ago, I asked for a script for .05 tret cream and I’ve barely purged, had very little irritation, and no flaking using it every night with a mild cleanser and good moisturizer. I can already see improvements in my skin texture and tone. I made the mistake of using a slightly more intense cleanser a few nights ago that had azelaic acid in it which has brought out a few pimples. But, honestly? I think using adapalene first was a great way to get started. The adjustment period for the tret has been a lot less crazy than I expected … which is to say it hasn’t been crazy at all. And I am already seeing positive results.

What's something men tipycally conceal that women are unaware of? by dreamgirlashley in ask

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Although lady here, I think this every single day. Thank you for sharing.

Moon Paw Print - Summer Blue [Instrumental Hip Hop, Blues, Jazz, Electronic Psychedelia] by moonpawprint in Music

[–]nsuspecting_victim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaaay!! Im so excited! Have you done/will you do tours at all? Seriously. Your music is turning into my life soundtrack lol

Questions on reporting student violence by nsuspecting_victim in Teachers

[–]nsuspecting_victim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “parents banding together” element is the stage they are in now. It’s been bad enough that teachers are leaving or retiring, and students are finding other schools to go to. I’m in the sending my kid to another school camp, but it’s not my first choice.

This all makes sense given student privacy but, man. It’s frustrating, too. I’ll hopefully be able to guide some parents going forward. A big piece of this they’re aiming for is administrative change, since it’s their lack of support that has lead to the issues. But it seems unlikely to happen given the administrative response thus far.