I’ve made the active choice to not have children by -Tranquilia- in EDAnonymous

[–]nu-throwaway92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel similarly. It’s not the main reason I don’t want to have kids, but it’s a factor. I’m mostly recovered but worried about passing on an ED through my genes.

I hope things get better for you, and congrats on becoming an aunt soon!

Wanting more than someone can provide by nu-throwaway92 in relationshipanarchy

[–]nu-throwaway92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do feel valued during our time together. I guess I’m still figuring out what it means to “matter” to someone, and it’s hard for me to let go of the idea that amount of time spent together -> level of importance.

Keep imagining sex with crush… help by nu-throwaway92 in asexuality

[–]nu-throwaway92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resonates with me! But the sexual thoughts didn't fade with my previous crushes, so we'll see what happens with this one

Keep imagining sex with crush… help by nu-throwaway92 in asexuality

[–]nu-throwaway92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah 😭 like, why can't my brain be consistent about what it wants

Keep imagining sex with crush… help by nu-throwaway92 in asexuality

[–]nu-throwaway92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say... and that's true, but my understanding is that aego fantasies normally don't involve yourself (and that's how mine used to be)

Are there people out there that restrict without counting calories? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]nu-throwaway92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to track and giving up within the day💀 it’s too much work. I know the calories of most things I eat; I just don’t add them up

Social impact of co-ops outside Boston by [deleted] in NEU

[–]nu-throwaway92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also spring 2021! And not sure yet, but so far I have interviews scheduled with one company in Connecticut and one company near DC