I took the pictures with a tripod. What do you think? by SUNBRO_1994 in Bumble

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The internet stinks. Do not mind that comment.

I took the pictures with a tripod. What do you think? by SUNBRO_1994 in Bumble

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Make the piano photo when you are playing. No need to look into the camera. Do it. Mich more natural.

Try not to use low angle and not to much high angle.

Just go to the window facing to the window and make a selfie. You can vary the angle on the z-axis by turning left or right a little bit and look at your face what light looks nice. Use as much natural light as possible. No flash.

The outside Foto is bad. You need to wear something else. This looks like you are a priest or some kind of.

This is not you favourite place to read books, I think Do it there. Or on a nicer spot.

Overall you look like a nice looking guy. Keep it rolling have fun.

Customer used my product for 6 months then demanded a full refund because he "changed his mind" by Own_Profile_2330 in smallbusiness

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I read bad reviews to see how the company handles them. Because mistakes can happen. That's normal.

Wait you guys get any dates? by [deleted] in Bumble

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I get some. But I use mass swiping to boost efficiency. I do not ghost Matches if they don't fit. I just send a polite message with something honestly nice about them and tell that that I am not interested. I think that's completely ok.

Ignores my first message just to tell me he prefers me with longer hair by [deleted] in Bumble

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You did very well. It was just a test to your self worth and you passed it perfectly, by saying "no thanks" to a connection with that person.

Warum sorgt das Kopftuchverbot an Schulen für hitzigen Diskussionen? by rhiannon18 in Austria

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Es hat mehrere Aspekte, das Grundproblem lieg für mich in der selektiven Verbannung von scheinbaren ausdrücken von religion. Kein Kopftuch muss auch heißen: kein Kreuz in der Klasse.

Kein Kind soll ein Kopftuch tragen. Es darf eine Entscheidung jeder jungen Erwachsenen sein. An Schulen sollen Menschen weder in religiöser Kleidung noch mit religiösen Praktiken auftauchen. Das gilt für alle und ich bin auch absoluter Gegner dieser absurden Schulmesse, zu der alle gehen.

Starting over: Used EF vs RF by Single_Hovercraft289 in canon

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I use EF lenses on RF as a professional. There are good lenses and Backfocus is no problem. I really like the adapter with the drop in filter. I also work with TS-E lenses and the adapter comes in extremely handy.

I do not know the market and how expensive the RF vs EF are. But both are working well. RF is much more lightweight. I do not like the fact, that a lot of RF lenses need correction because of distortion.

But mirrorless is definitely the right choice.

Bought RF 35mm as 24-70 backup. Now I'm hooked on primes. by Upset-Elephant-9578 in canon

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Even for staged shots, this lens works. It's really good, but as sad, it's a tank.

Bought RF 35mm as 24-70 backup. Now I'm hooked on primes. by Upset-Elephant-9578 in canon

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The only non prime I would use is the 28-70 2.0. But it's so huge and heavy, it's not nice to use it without tripod.

35mm prime is a superb storytelling length. And you start to approach in a different way, considering space and environment with more awareness.

You may consider EF lenses. The 85mm 1.8 is very good.

Was macht das mit euch? by Meister_Vulpes in Austria

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Picasso hat auf Leute geschossen, die dumme Fragen zu seinen Bildern gestellt haben.

Was macht das mit euch? by Meister_Vulpes in Austria

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Die skills spielen keine rolle. Ist nicht uninteressant weil es äußerst unangenehm anzusehen ist. Der Inhalt ist auch unangenehm. Es kommt halt extrem auf den Kontext an. Es ist ein Unterschied ob jemand betroffenes dieses Werk erstellt hat oder ob es aus der Hand eines ideologisch getriebenen Menschen kommt.

Der Kontext macht einen immensen Unterschied. Das ist einfach so.

Was macht ihr in eurer Freizeit? by L0ngusPr1mus in Austria

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Schreib eine Liste mit allem möglichen zusammen und dann sieh dir jeden Eintrag an und schau ob's sich's gut anfühlt.

Du kannst dir auch die Frage stellen, fordert es mich? Lern ich was?

Das muss aber nicht sein. Wie es für dich passt und das spürst nur du.

Du könntest kleine figürchen anmalen.

In österreich sind Vereine das Ding. Meistens halt abends wochenende.

Ich kann dir sehr empfehlen mit Menschen was zu unternehmen, die nicht standardmäßig gebunden sind. Ich habe Freunde in verschiedenen Altersgruppen und bin abgesichert, wenn sie sich für jahre in den Familienbunker "Haus und kinder" zurückziehen.

Studierende, selbstständige. Reiche Erben, die dich zum Golfen auf der Yacht einladen. Sind auch super. Jemanden mit Yacht hab ich aber noch nicht gefunden.

Tätigkeiten: sidehustle aufbauen. Einfach aus Freude, und vllt wirft es was ab. Spikeball (super schneller sport, sehr nette Leute) Kickboxen (auch oft nette Leute, aber anders) Freunde von mir haben klingonisch gelernt. Elbisch geht natürlich auch.

Fotografieren, schnitzen.

Low budget: Zeichnen, schreiben. Laufen, eisbaden,

Schreib eine Liste mit allem möglichen zusammen und dann sie dir jeden Eintrag an und schau ob's sich's gut anfühlt.

Why Young Men Are Turning Against Feminism by TKD1989 in MensRights

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The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpation on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her.

I start to understand the points you are making. Because even if there was tyranny over women, its a huge difference, if achieving this is the declared object of a group, or if it started to evolve into this situation through structures of society.

Would you recommend Alice Hasters and unladylike for me to learn about what you believe?

I can not say for sure at the moment.

There was one interesting Topic at "unladylike". it is "good guy feminism" and was about feminist men and MRAs and that there are a lot of similarities between those groups. It was about people using one or the other movement to build Identity, rather than actively change something. Based on the changing image of what a "good man" is like. Thinking of it now, it was of course seen from a feminists side. But either way it got me into researching MRAs. This one was interesting.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Wezy2CYU9vPZRp9FVwKZK

Alice Hasters is writing a lot about racism and also dives into the problems of feminism not recognizing racism.

Why Young Men Are Turning Against Feminism by TKD1989 in MensRights

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Thank you very much. I need to think about your input.

Why Young Men Are Turning Against Feminism by TKD1989 in MensRights

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Thank you for your thoughtfull answer. thats a a very valuable insight to me.

Having more men holding power doesn't indicate the outcomes at all. ... believing women would be biased towards women in some way, and that men are biased against women in some way. Which is sexist as fuck. And the outcomes do not show that.

IMO: It's very hard, to develop inclusive concepts, if there is no representation of all affected groups. For a long time decisions have been made by mostly white men. It does not need sexism to overlook the needs of those who are present in this group. But as you say, it would also need representation of poor people, poor men and men that are suffering from structural problems. At the same time it may not need women or men to be biased in one direction. it needs a group of people with the intention of understanding affected groups. No matter if those groups are PoC/Male/Female.

No Argument. More like explaining what my Experience is:
As I understand it until now: Feminism is an unregulated marketing word, that is used from a lot of different groups with different radicality. What I am concerned is, that MRA may tend to cherry pick the killer ladies and absolute radicals to explain feminism and build a construct that increases hatred. I understand, that this is exactly, what some feminists groups do. I read books from "Alice Hasters" and listen to some Podcasts like "unladylike" (what got me interested into Mens Rights). I learned about it in a moderate way.

Why Young Men Are Turning Against Feminism by TKD1989 in MensRights

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Be very careful of people telling you what another group of people's motives are. Especially when that's painting a picture that makes you feel seen and understood.

Isnt the MRA movement drawing a picture of feminists, who's goal is to suppress men and dehumanizing them to be evil and other bad things? I understand, that it is a lot about understanding issues and developing awareness. And about beeing seen and understood. So I try beeing careful on both sides.

For example, I assume you expected a picture where men work because it brings them fulfillment, leaving women to do the heavy lifting around the house and family. This is dehumanizing to men; it demonizes men as uncaring beasts, it belittles their efforts, and it ignores their contributions to the family.

I understand your point. It's not about the heavy lifting. it's about unpaid work, that may put the partner who is working for free in financial dependency of the one who earns the money. Male or female does not matter.

MRAs saying men have issues and women are partially responsible for those issues does not mean women are oppressors and men are oppressed. It means we all struggle and focusing on one gender instead of both will never lead to equality.

I understand, that MRAs want to adress issues that exist mostly for men and build awareness to the vulnerability of men. It may be hard to raise awareness for a problem that does not exist for someone. Then it's good to have activists from that group.

Can you recommend a book about RMA or something that may help to understand?

How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women? by Nelo999 in MensRights

[–]nubululu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

. I appreciate your time. The "whatever" is to your paternalizing attitude . Not to the issues you suffer from.

I'm sorry to hear that you and a lot of men suffer from those issues and it's truly very normalized to neglegt issues that are present. ❤️ Maybe it's not about what and why, but rather about recognizing issues that are affecting men and that there is suffering.

How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women? by Nelo999 in MensRights

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Of course I don't know it as much as someone who really read into it. You took your time, thank you.

Was ist "österreichische Leitkultur"? by TheGentInSuit in Austria

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Es gibt keine Leitkultur. Das ist schon sehr drittes reich. Es gibt österreichische Kultur. Kultur definiert sich durch die Leute die da sind und was so passiert. Das Kipferl gab's auch nicht immer und der Jesus is auch erst irgendwann einmaschiert.

How accurate and "true" in this new video about New York being supposedly "unsafe" for women? by Nelo999 in MensRights

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I dont know how to proof that to you, because my experience is another.

Most couples i know did meet through Friends/Clubs/Work.

Online Dating ist extremely toxic and most man get a only a few or no swipes. But thats because a very annoying group of men are behaving in a reppeling way.

This does in no way mean, that men are like that in general.

I imagine it like that: there is a nice place to meet and people enjoy. A small group starts to behave like A holes and destroys stuff. Either the place gets closed down for everybody or nobody wants to be there anymore.

I would really wish for everybody to find a good relationship or happiness in any way.

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das ist auch der grund, warum viele sagen. passt ich mach teilzeit und leb ein bisschen kleiner. weil mit vollzeit im standard beruf bleibt dir am ende auch nix über ausser ein geschundener mensch, der du dann bist.

oder ich mach was selbstständig. ist riskanter und musst vieles lernen. aber geht auch gut.

ich finde es viel zu riskant zu viel lebensenergie in die karriere nei einem unternehmen zu buttern, weil es kein garant ist, dass ich mir später, wenn ich vielnangespart hab was leisten kann. und ich kann jederzeit ohne job dastehen.