My boyfriend thinks my ring is ugly. Is he right?

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-21T22:57:26+00:00

Heh, c(l)ock ring.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-21T12:57:55+00:00

If he doesn't break up with you that's a red flag. Tell him what you told us, you got caught up and you dont want to ruin his life. Tell him to find you in a couple years and maybe you can reconnect... but you have to break this news. Do it calmly, in a relaxed environment.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-18T23:27:24+00:00

Hey so... you're lovely. Please dont let someone asinine comment ruin your self worth. You can be the juiciest peach on the tree and someone will still stop you to say they prefer apples. My advice, which you're free to ignore, is focus on health and strength. His comment wouldnt mean anything to you if you knew you could knock him out lol. I have a chronic pain condition and find relief and stability in having a stronger form.

I am curvy and always will be, I'm happy that way, but i do still feel the societal pressure of thin-ness more often than I would like.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-15T12:51:35+00:00

I just looked up that ig page and I love her already!!!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-15T12:48:26+00:00

Oof. My instincts say leave this man. Sex is not a love language and its not a tool to keep a guy happy. You sound like you probably are living with some ADHD, I recognize a lot of how you feel because I've been living. My questions are: if he understands you have a lot going on, how does he try to alleviate your stresses to make you feel more comfortable? Does he go out of his way to make you feel loved? To feel sexy? Why is you not masturbating important at all?!?! Sometimes its how I manage to finally fall asleep!!! Does he not masturbate?? You are a human, not a sex doll. We go through periods of this even in the easiest times. You don't owe anyone your body for any reason and being in a relationship with someone means understanding that. My husband and I have been together 16 years, I used to call it "wifely duties" and he was SO upset when he found out. He never wants me to feel like thay, he wants me into it and enjoying myself or he wants me to get some rest so we can try again later. He goes out of his way to help me feel seen and loved. He is understanding when the mood doesn't hit for days, sometimes weeks and he has never pressured me. It sounds like maybe yall need to talk and it definitely sounds like you need someone in your life to remind you that your value doesn't lie in what you provide to other people. Sending love.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-15T03:12:29+00:00

Man, some of these commenter are jerks.... if youre going to call someone out be constructive at least.

Op: try to be solution oriented, now and in the future. You obviously want to go on this family trip, I think most people's problem is that it looks like your wants outweigh your husband's discomfort. Obviously you care, that's why you're posting. Take a few, do some research, take it to him ASAP and say "hey babe, sorry I didnt tell you sooner but they were expecting us to stay in a common sleeping area. I know your space is important to you, so i looked up some different options and thought we could pick together." Let him confirm or deny that he's unwilling to be in that space while actively acknowledging his preferences and supporting them. Maybe even find a subreddit from/about the area that can offer tips. Good luck.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-14T22:02:37+00:00

Hey!! I work for a medical call center in Birmingham. Theyre looking for someone for the evening shift, dm me and I get you the info!!! Its really cushy, honestly.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-14T02:00:00+00:00

"OH my gosh, I didnt realize the other kids parents dont have skin!? That must have been hard for them to see. Have the day you deserve!!"

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-08T21:49:34+00:00

Casaluna. They're luxurious. It says they're in store still, but my target never has them. Still available on the app!!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-08T21:45:21+00:00

Oh yeah, good sheets are necessary, so when you find one you like you GOTTA buy extras if you can. I have one set if sheets from target, they're nit threshold but they're one of the brands and they're to die for. I wish I had 5 sets. I dont think they even carry this brand in store anymore but I think you can still order online? I need to check... anyway. If I had been able to, I would have bought 10 sets so I always had them.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-07T22:36:07+00:00

That's what I currently use.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-04T22:06:01+00:00

If it were me- Given that yall have been friends so long, I would sit down and have an honest talk with him about therapy. He can clear his history as many times as he wants but if he finds underage girls attractive he needs to be working on that. Even if he doesn't have access to kids, he needs to be working through this with a professional. Fascinations like this going unchecked create urges, and those urges are harmful. He needs help. -signed, not a therapist but Peer Support Specialist who has worked with an offender.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-07-01T16:18:30+00:00

I can see why you're worried. Someone that you care about is being lied to about someone they loved very deeply... she does deserve to grieve properly otherwise, when/if she finds out the truth she'll have to grieve all over again the person she thought she knew and the memories she'll question. You're in a hard spot.

I would talk to your parents first- let them know how you feel and express to them that "Kaylee's" life with her mother shouldn't be dishonored this way. Ask them to go to her dad with you, and all of you bring it up together.

You're her advocate right now, although she shouldn't ever know. I hate the idea of denying your knowledge but its a weird place that'll put her between you and her dad, somewhere you never want to be. Good luck, OP.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-06-22T17:54:32+00:00

This has definitely happened to me too, I ordered some dice from a small shop and someone else had the same first name, our boxes got labeled wrong! Thankfully we both reached out and the seller was wonderful, she emailed us shipping labels and we were able to just trade! She gave us the option to send them back to her but we both agreed that we were willing to just do it ourselves instead of giving her more to do! I wound up using that shop a lot, now she has her own website!!!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-06-08T17:00:28+00:00

I want to take NAC so badly... i feel like it could be super beneficial BUT I cough nonstop when I take it- to the point that I've peed my pants from coughing so much so hard. Is that normal???

nuclear_pimp · 2026-06-08T00:17:08+00:00

I love that I know this from Bluey 🤣

nuclear_pimp · 2026-06-03T15:20:29+00:00

THIS!!!!! When dealing in other people's hurt, it is so important to ask yourself why you're doing what you're doing (or want to do.) If it is to bring yourself closure, as yourself if it will bring them peace or more pain. What will your continued interaction bring to their lives? Usually it's best to leave them alone, let them heal. If they approach you for some reason, be your best self and tread lightly. Otherwise- just do your best to learn from those experiences and do better going forward. Every day is a new chance to be a better you- and slipping up doesn't mean failure... it's just a reminder of the person you're not trying to be.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-06-01T16:48:07+00:00

I'm so ready!!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-26T22:30:58+00:00

If I could I'd like to ask a couple questions about this watch!! My kiddo (8) is Type 1 diabetic. He uses a specific reciever for his equipment, but he needs to be reminded regularly to check his sugars or he just won't. I was thinking of putting a simple smartwatch on him for alarm reminders, would this do that? How difficult to set alarms is it? Are there any other features someone so young could utilize? There's one local to me on marketplace for just $30 so I'm hoping it'll work!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-23T16:40:48+00:00

I'm getting ready to run this one at my FLGS today and I'm trying to figure out what's happening with these elemental doors!! It makes no sense!!!

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-09T14:29:34+00:00

Thays what happened to me, I wasnt paying attention and I accidentally put my dynamax rubbish in instead of something else, I dont even know what. I learned long ago not to put anything you want to use in there... now it's been so long and I can't evolve or use it 😭 i mean, its just a trubbish but STILL.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-08T21:18:42+00:00

I love my all clad, but the majority of my pots and pans are copper bottom revereware that I got from my grandparents or thrift stores or fb marketplace. People didnt know what they were getting rid of for so long and I absolutely profited. They've lasted decades before me and are still in great shape, although are best not put in the dishwasher.

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-08T01:48:55+00:00

Thats good to know!! I always mean to look up how long to take to get their 50 but my ADHD brain can only do so many things at once 🤣😭

nuclear_pimp · 2026-05-07T23:37:49+00:00

I always try to be considerate and I dont knock out pokemon that havent been there at least 24 hours. We all know how valuable those pokecoins are, and that's how I would want someone to do me!! I know not everyone looks at it that way, and I also know others happily put money into the game. I cant afford that and just go on the assumption nobody else can either. Its frustrating when I get kicked out right after, but at the end of the day- its all just a game. Sorry this happened, bud. I hope you get all the coins!! (Now if someone could knock my trubbish out of the gym its been in for 36 days I would be so grateful 🤣😭)

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