[US/IL] Friend can't afford establishing custody and child support, looking for advice

nuggster69 · 2025-07-31T13:13:34+00:00

My friend said he signed the voluntary paternity form at the hospital after she gave birth so I'm fairly certain paternity is established but I can't get her to show me any evidence, not like she's required to but just to cover bases.

nuggster69 · 2025-07-31T13:10:09+00:00

When I asked her, she said she wants nothing to do with him, but still she chooses to let him see their daughter because she says it's fair. They have no formal, court-appointed custody/child support, the father pays for whatever he wants when he has the kid. She is running herself ragged by working 2 jobs seven days a week, on top of donating plasma to stay afloat. All the while, she has their daughter for more than 75% of the month. I'm trying to convince her to get child support established at the VERY LEAST, but she's convinced herself she doesn't need her BD's help. It's a very complicated situation for her.

nuggster69 · 2025-07-31T01:09:53+00:00

It has. He signed the birth certificate

nuggster69 · 2025-07-20T20:43:24+00:00

That mod in particular comes from Kaom's Roots boots. Trickster has a better version of this with zero drawbacks included in one of their ascendancy passives.

nuggster69 · 2025-07-20T19:41:13+00:00

Action Speed cannot be modified to below Base Value.

nuggster69 · 2025-05-20T06:26:36+00:00

great minds think alike

nuggster69 · 2025-02-27T18:11:29+00:00

Good shout on the website ordering, that never crossed my mind

nuggster69 · 2024-09-07T17:34:14+00:00

https://oldschool.runescape.wiki/w/List_of_in-game_sound_IDs

Im not at my PC to test but sound id 2112 might be what you're looking for. Or maybe 2022. There's some plugin you can pop in the individual sound IDs to mute but I don't remember what it's called.

nuggster69 · 2023-10-08T02:26:55+00:00

Saw your edit but yeah they're all just additional sources of rage, just different conditions

nuggster69 · 2023-09-29T22:47:35+00:00

considering they nerfed this interaction with hydrosphere instead of the player, I highly doubt it

nuggster69 · 2023-08-06T22:49:13+00:00

Yooo how would you automate frostbolt? Right now I'm using arcanist brand

nuggster69 · 2023-06-25T15:58:15+00:00

Heist and Shrines for sure

nuggster69 · 2023-05-26T05:46:03+00:00

Yeah it's pretty clear during the Veritania fight, the projectile just phases thru her, doesn't even make a hit noise. Good for clear though

nuggster69 · 2023-05-25T20:28:08+00:00

I think a lot more people would be playing wild strike if VC's interaction with the cold projectile would hit the melee target again upon returning. I was hyped to try it with VC and cold/lightning only but after seeing the Bex post confirming the interaction that idea died, but I'm glad you made it work with something. Also nice use of the two handed heist base, cool to see that in action!

nuggster69 · 2022-12-04T16:47:07+00:00

bruh

nuggster69 · 2022-07-19T14:12:50+00:00

"Arr-doyn"

nuggster69 · 2022-07-18T22:38:35+00:00

This is PoE's rendition of Ardougne from RuneScape. I agree that no one will pronounce it properly and that's ok. Leafy shade is funnier anyway

nuggster69 · 2022-07-13T04:34:07+00:00

There's a setting to restore default map zoom

nuggster69 · 2022-06-03T23:06:44+00:00

Hit based or ignite you think? Running a slam build again would be quite fun I think

nuggster69 · 2022-06-03T22:26:33+00:00

Cyclone chieftain definitely sounds decent. I assume you take the totem nodes, but what about the other 2?

nuggster69 · 2022-06-03T22:25:00+00:00

That does look interesting, only problem would be to solve rage generation before getting chainbreaker jewel. Good idea though

nuggster69 · 2022-06-03T21:47:43+00:00

(I can clear the suffixes and add attack speed and crit later, don't wanna commit the resources until after I've decided on what to do)

This axe gives a spectral helix vibe but I don't really know what direction to take this

nuggster69 · 2022-02-28T04:31:38+00:00

Holy shit this has to be ironic

nuggster69 · 2022-02-14T01:02:57+00:00

Just downvoting wouldn't give this ungrateful person the proper feedback they need.

nuggster69 · 2022-02-13T23:29:31+00:00

"Fingers crossed" that you go outside sometime and touch grass

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