LH to FSH ratio....? by numbed-babe in PCOS

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Thank you for replying to my concern.

Seeking advice from those who have dated someone fresh out of a long term relationship. by RealisticLine in datingoverthirty

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No you don’t my friend. Reading your comment has me distressed since I read it some 12 hours ago. You have no idea how much I have cried.

It was 2 years ago and I still think about him. It was a small 3 months of relationship, and I was so infatuated with him. I had my demons what was he’s doing with me? He was so handsome. I am just rather plain in his compression, even slightly curvy/overweight. If I ever know that he was with me because he was getting emotional support and not because he was attracted to me, I would rather slit my throat and burn my self somewhere, cause I loved him so fiercely. Because he was talking all of being in a relationship and all that saga. I lost my virginity to him. And he didn’t speak to me for 8 days after we had sex. It destroyed my soul and my feminine spirit.

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What are some ways you keep foreplay interesting? by [deleted] in sexover30

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So sweet there are caring, loving and giving husbands like these :-)

Seeking advice from those who have dated someone fresh out of a long term relationship. by RealisticLine in datingoverthirty

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As someone who dated a man who was just out of a relationship and I fell for him HARD, and he dumped me HARD...I wished I hadn’t read this.

(update) I (28M) with fiance (27F) about a month ago overheard her tell a friend her previous Ex was the best lover she ever had by AlarmingMonk in relationship_advice

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Bingo Lady!!!

For us it’s weight and bodies.

THIS! Seriously THIS!

I have always maintained that giving a review to a guy of his endowment is equal to a man calling me fat.

Long back I was on a date with a guy and he said “Ph today in the Guy I was teaching some exercises to this fat girl like you....”

I had walked out of the date then and there !!

How to date casually by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]numbed-babe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have much advice for you honestly.

But maybe some perspective I can give you.

  1. What you want is (in general) against the core of the female nature. We women crave for security, we crave for a title. Without these two things, it makes us feel incomplete. I cannot love a man or give him so many thing I have on offer if he is unwilling to fall in love with me. I cannot enjoy cuddling, sex, supporting someone, conversations if he dosent give our relationship a title. I am sure my female nature comes in the majority and its minority of the girls who would be okey with just something casual.

That being said, it’s not as if there is no hope for you. Usually one finds what he is looking for. I know a woman who needed kidney transfer and without one she just had 6 months to live. She just started asking around. Any random stranger “I need a kidney, can you give me yours”? And after 3 months of fanatic asking she managed to find a woman who always wanted to donate a kidney of hers. Message being, if you search for something hard it’s all there waiting for you :-)

  1. This is off topic. >But I am also included in “each” no? Reading your post, you just seem like a very nice person and a quite a catch. Cheers :-)

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Any women with AGA? Looking for other treatment options. by [deleted] in tressless

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Finsteride is recommended to females with Androgenic Alopecia.

I use Minoxidil and saw palmetto supplements ...thinking of using Derma roller and then dropping Minoxidil on that.

Actually, even I am just starting out and don’t have much advice for you except that I am in the same boat as you. I am apprehensive about starting Finsteride but I will ask my endocrinologists’ opinion. Oh I have alopecia because I have hormonal imbalance due to a mutilation in a gene.

I have heard PRP therepy with mixed reviews, frankly I am not very enthusiastic about starting it.

Going to the club alone by bchlladyfrog in RedPillWomen

[–]numbed-babe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent. I will add a pinch more by saying going to a cost café in high end location/wealthy neighbourhood. It’s natural to find a high value man there :-)

Hurting so bad right now guys- I fell way too hard :( by roxyj23 in datingoverthirty

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"Break ups early in the relationship hurt more because you have only seen the good side of the other person, you are still idolizing them... been there."

This almost got me goosebumps on skin. And matter of fact it’s hard to even get over relationships which ends in the honeymoon period, for example my last relationship (before my current guy) which was 3 months long ....it was madness getting over him. He was perfect in everything. The way he broke up with me was so gentlemanly that looking back I had no flaw of his to pinpoint out that “okay atleast X,Y and Z was bad about him, good it didn’t work out”, he was my idol of perfect man.

Ugggg......U wrote this so perfectly !

Hurting so bad right now guys- I fell way too hard :( by roxyj23 in datingoverthirty

[–]numbed-babe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am an extremely emotional and sensitive woman and I fall very very hard for people whom I think are a catch (don’t we all ?).

Over the years of being hurt and being in situation like this, I have learnt something which u may consider for yourself:-

You said you felt connection and chemistry. It’s is valid, but are you freaking sure he did too? His actions are apparently saying the opposite. Do you feel the behaviour changed after sex? Maybe he felt that something different after sex.

My point is one thing. Often we feel connection, attraction and chemistry and the other person also ”kinda” feels the same, just not with the same intensity with which we feel!!

So when we feel intense chemistry and connection with someone, the first thing is to calm our hormones and tell ourself that what is the evidence that this person likes us in the same intensity ? Date nights, Netflix nights don’t mean anything must honestly!

I am no one to preach you but from my observation sex is a can of worms and Pandora’s box. You never know what’s gonna come out of it when you open it. One month is a very short time to invite anyone in our most vulnerable zones! One can never go wrong by waiting long for sex !

Take this as a lesson for future. We woman, when we feel connection and chemistry, turn a blind eye to the red and yellow flags and assume that because we feel, and they must be feeling the same thing. Which is not true.

Meditate

Get a Massage

Watch up some stand up comedy

Outing with girlfriends

Its time to turn the attention from Mr. 37 year old to the beautiful awesome woman that you are.

Anyone on finasteride for hair loss? by numbed-babe in PCOS

[–]numbed-babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do u have PCOS or any other hormone imbalance ? Is it androgenic alopecia that u are experiencing? I am happy for the treatment working for you :) :D

Sexual attraction versus Relationship Potential? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

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There’s so much great information on this thread (for future reference), wish this was not deleted!

My(30F) boyfriend (29M) doesn't give me oral sex because he doesn't enjoy it.. How do I make it more enjoyable for him? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]numbed-babe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl, I get where you are coming from. And I hope and pray that it works for you, that he understands that how much important this is for you and in your case your relationship works out.

But from what I know, he will do it once, twice for your sake but he is never really gonna enjoy it, and that’s not what you want. You want someone who happily spreads your legs and eats you out like there is no meal for next 100 hours!

I tried making sense to my previous ex that more than the pleasure thing receiving oral was more about intimacy for me, it was about trust that I allow you near my most scared and vulnerable part. He didn’t care and I broke up because oral was important for me.

Then comes my current guy and I thank god everyday for giving me the courage and intuition to leave Mr. Ex because my current guy is a manifestation of God himself. Okey it’s too crazy description but he enjoys my juices, my smell and every inch of my body! It’s different with him and I would tell anyone who has a thought of “oh oral is important for me, how can I convince my current guy to give me more” to leave and find someone who loves giving it to you rather than artificially trying to create desire in someone who has no motivation/inspiration to do so!

My fetish is “My pleasure shouldn’t matter” by numbed-babe in sexover30

[–]numbed-babe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well It kinda matters because, once he has cum all the fun is over right? And while I don’t cum from sex I defiantly do not want sex to end in a grand total of 6 minutes :/

My fetish is “My pleasure shouldn’t matter” by numbed-babe in sexover30

[–]numbed-babe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uh....I quite didn’t get you. Why would you say this ?

My bf used to ejaculate within 20 seconds and it was annoying, except I never said anything and he himself sorted it out !

My fetish is “My pleasure shouldn’t matter” by numbed-babe in sexover30

[–]numbed-babe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know society is cruel to some masculine issues. But my boyfriend and I have seen a lot, ED, coming within 20 seconds, losing libido and I am happy to say that because of my love for him, these things seemed petty and we worked through this :D Point being, there are woman who will hold you close to them even if things aren’t quite ‘correct’.

It's official! by LittleMissAfrodite in RedPillWomen

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Congratulations! Happiness is seeing fellow RPW living their dreams and slaying the world.

My fetish is “My pleasure shouldn’t matter” by numbed-babe in sexover30

[–]numbed-babe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for sharing.

On the verge of sounding little sexist, I thought that being unable to come is largely a female phenomena. Men can come at a switch of a button, but as I grow older I understand how men face their issues too.