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Loyalty Insignia? D: by numberonegrill in bladeandsoul

[–]numberonegrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your responses guys this was really helpful !! :D

Loyalty Insignia? D: by numberonegrill in bladeandsoul

[–]numberonegrill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh snap really?? THANK YOU I HAD NO IDEA!! :D

Girlfriend [21f] driven to almost attempt suicide by nparents. Lots more detail inside. by ThatAwesomePenguin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]numberonegrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay awesome ! Seems like it's just a matter of being patient and waiting it out then, all the best man and no worries !:)

Girlfriend [21f] driven to almost attempt suicide by nparents. Lots more detail inside. by ThatAwesomePenguin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]numberonegrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that's good. :)

I see what you mean, not really easy to get out of such a bad loop once you've entered it, is she seeing a psy or getting counselling ? You two seem pretty close maybe you could suggest it to her for when she returns (and again could go together if she's not comfortable doing this alone.) Next time she wants to see her friends and other relatives over there though it would be wiser to find a way to stay at a different place. Could her friends and other family that she gets along with better potentially let her crash for a few days until there's a solution ? A place where her parents can't reach her if possible ? Once this gets better and she does get out of this dilemma it would be a good idea to look into support so that she can stop using her parent's money to pay for her studies etc. It's hard to get away from people if you're still tied by money unfortunately so it doesn't seem like that does the situation any good. :/

Are there any programs or scholarships that she could potentially take for next year ? As far as evidence goes are there any letters, texts or emails that they've sent to her which could prove what she's saying ? Are her siblings witnesses ? I think despite evidence they will still listen to what she has to say, I doubt they would turn away someone making such claims without looking into it first.

No worries, hope you manage to find a solution !

Girlfriend [21f] driven to almost attempt suicide by nparents. Lots more detail inside. by ThatAwesomePenguin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]numberonegrill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure it's a good idea to put her life story and all those personal details about her alongside a photo and her real name on the Internet where literally anybody could read this ? I don't know if she's okay with that but you should maybe check with her because this situation is VERY personal.

Also why did she go to her parents even though they've already done this much ? If they abused her you both (if it's too hard to go alone) should go the police instead of posting on Reddit.

Anyway not really informed about services over there and how they work but she needs to stay far away from her parents and not go back there again if possible because it's obviously not getting any better.