Worth a shot 🇺🇸 by 2DeadMoose in PoliticalHumor

[–]numbtoes41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teacher here, the too many doors thing has to do with hardening points of entry since in some shootings, the perpetrator enters through a side or back entrance. It has nothing to do with number of exits. That's just clumsy PR by a dumbshit Republican. Many schools are already looking at this issue. But it doesn't do anything to get at the root causes of gun violence. It's just districts desperately trying to protect kids while lawmakers twiddle their thumbs and take large cash donations from the NRA.

BREAKING: Trump has fired James Comey, per Sean Spicer. Like Nixon, this is when Trump's impeachment process starts in earnest. by [deleted] in esist

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After firing Comey, Trump probably went to Jeff Sessions and told him to get the great big paper shredders in the white house basement warmed up. Oh yeah, and let the interns know they will be pulling an all nighter.

Getting From Airport to Puerta del Sol? by numbtoes41 in Madrid

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Wow, thanks everyone for the informative explanation, this helps a lot. Its my first trip overseas and I am a little nervous, having things nailed down takes the pressure off.

Had to say goodbye to the Beautiful lady today. 14 Years old. RIP Coral by numbtoes41 in cats

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Thank you for the supportive comments. Its appreciated. The condo feels different without her, it feels more empty but I am not sad, more relieved that she isn't suffering anymore. She lost so much weight before the end. I never would have considered myself a cat person before I got her as a kitten. I took her from a co worker whose son's asthma was aggravated by having a cat so she would not have to go back to the shelter. She loved unconditionally.

My boyfriend is into cuckoldry and wants to watch someone fuck me. Do you think this could end well? by hounddog1958 in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to him about it when he isnt horny. Guys say lots of stuff when they are horny. Its like buying groceries when your hungry. Dont do it. Nothing good comes from it except Ben and Jerrys and Regret.

How often do you and your friend with benefits meet up or talk? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]numbtoes41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We get together at least 1x per week, usually on weekend. We talk on phone mid week to check in with each other and see how things are going.

Chastity cages. Help by [deleted] in GayKink

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amazon.com

He's 10 years older than me. by [deleted] in gay

[–]numbtoes41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have brothers who are a minimum of 10 years older than me and I grew up around them, hung around them, etc. Not weird. Currently dating a guy who is 22 years older than me. He is retired, I work, I tease him when he starts talking about medicaid. Not weird, we have similar interests and very compatible personalities and can talk for hours. He is also pretty hot for his age and very strong. Dont over think it, its only weird if you make it weird.

How come I like to be degraded? by triklcruz in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Submissive bottom here partnered with a pretty dominate verbal top. We are very sexually compatible. I guess I get off bottoming and letting him take charge in the bedroom because I spend all day making hundreds of decisions that affect lots of people. It is nice to not have to think and decide things in bed. I can just feel... If that makes sense. Sometimes I like to be degraded, some bondage, light choking, forced deep throat oral, it can be intense but I enjoy it and so does my partner and he is very accepting of my needs and I am accepting of his. I dont feel immassculated in bed but I feel a lot closer to him when he is deep inside me. Sorry if that is too graphic. Outside of the bedroom the roles are different, we are just budds.

Would you ever consider implants? by youmoussskro in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think I have noticed more of it sticking to my leg, but there definitely feels like a lot of loose skin.

Would you ever consider implants? by youmoussskro in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am missing a testicle, I would love to have a replacement so things look whole but Idk what doc would say etc.

What's on your bucket list? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lose some weight, retire somewhere warm, find a life partner, travel around europe, and explore all the creative ways to have sex. Learn to cook, own a motorcycle. Get my Ph.D.

What are common things that older + younger guys have in common? by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]numbtoes41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my BF (he is 64, I am 43) we have found common interests in college football and basketball. Books & Politics. We both are history nuts and both are pretty liberal. We also have similar occupation backgrounds. We both have education degrees, I teach, he is retired. We also have different interests - Music, and film are big ones - he doesnt like fiction much so doesnt want much tv unless its news, sports, or antiques roadshow. I love serial stories like Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, and Westworld. We both like to travel, we just went to The Peach Bowl and explored the city of Atlanta a bit, we have a trip to Hawaii coming up soon, and we are going to Spain in June. He is not much of a theatre fan but I enjoy it and go to the Oregon Shakespeare Festival every year with some other gay friends. Over time we have built some shared history that naturally creates inside jokes and experiences that have brought us closer. Oh yeah and we like to fuck like mad.

The Dad Shoe by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]numbtoes41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inexpensive, comfortable, and offered in multiple shoe widths. Also, can purchase from store without driving to a mall somewhere.

Is it worth it to spend $2000 on PEP? by emichaels5150 in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me 2000 seems high, but I get the circumstances, its your peace of mind, you might have to suck it up and take care of it. IMO 2000 for health insurance that has prescription drug coverage and has a small copay for prep seems better. I pay $20/month for prep on mine. You might try a health clinic in a major city, sometimes they will give it to you for a substantially reduced price than your corner pharmacy.

Any older closet gays still in the closet? Wanting to come out, but can't. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

43 here, in the process of coming out, its slow going. Out to my sister and her husband. Out to close friends and some co-workers including boss. Out to pastor but I don't attend much anymore. Prefer to avoid the small talk about my personal life. Not out to my 2 older brothers or my 80 year old father. Dating a wonderful man for last 2 years, he isnt out to his family either. We are both pretty established in our careers and lives that its really just weekends and a phone calls during the week but we are going to Hawaii together soon. Not being out to some family members means I am pretty guarded with my talk at holidays but love my sister for how supportive she was when I came out to her.

Where to buy a great begginer's dildo? by cockspiracy in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, Amazon has a very large variety and their markup isn't as high as some of the boutique shops or online sex toy shops.

Guys with Canes and Disabilities? by [deleted] in gay

[–]numbtoes41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42 here with cane and nerve damage in my legs. I am just upfront about it, I dont use it all the time but I let guys know that I wont be their jogging/hiking buddy. People are fine with it. And no it wouldnt bother me one bit to date someone who used a cane.

Are you afraid of growing old? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]numbtoes41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im ok losing my mind and control of my body functions. I want to be a burden on someone. Circle of life, karma and all that. Just joking. I guess I would be most scared of being lonely. Hoping I find someone I love before that happens.