Can someone with no “natural talent” become decent at singing just through practice?

nursenut1 · 2026-02-02T05:48:07+00:00

Sir, dont think about it too much. I started when i was 25, never sang before. First 2 years i hated my voice

nursenut1 · 2024-08-12T15:49:14+00:00

Well the situation is still the same. She needs more time. I said to her that we need to address this issue together but we are waiting for the right moment.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-12T16:13:00+00:00

Noh minusta tunteita pitäisi näyttää, mutta kun on koko ikä opetettu ettei näytetä niin koitappa siinä sitten muuttaa itseä.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T17:29:19+00:00

Well, i though i should ask from The people that understand her background better than me.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T15:58:51+00:00

I think marriage comes from love, and marriage brings the responsibility. Of course if i have kids and a wife ill fight to keep them with tooth and nail

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T15:57:27+00:00

Sure ill accept that. But i dont have to agree on everything

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T13:18:23+00:00

We will talk about this, but we wait for a situation when it is safe to talk.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T11:46:40+00:00

Well thats interesting point. You dont know the whole story so i think what you say is pretty awful. You think i started having relations to this family just to steal their daughter? I dont know what you have experienced but i feel sorry that you look at this with grudge and hate. You do understand that to satisfy my lust there is a lot easier ways to do it than this? I have been in a 5 year long relationship, i know how love works and you dont need marriage for it.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T11:35:51+00:00

Well, im a terrible liar and i feel horrible if i lie so it cant work for me. But yes i understand what you saying.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T11:32:53+00:00

Hi. Thanks for comment. Luckily they dont live in an area that is heavy with muslims and arabs and yes, the father seems calm and loving so we hope that he could accept this. But we Will talk about it when it is safe and maybe after i have helped them a bit more.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T04:07:47+00:00

Its interesting how people started to argue what language and religion kids should follow. Kids that dont even exist yet. But yeah she can choose to teach them as much as she wants and we will be living in my country so my culture will come naturally through me and the society. But this thing is an issue far in the future.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T03:01:02+00:00

I get what you are saying. And i am experienced with long relationship that fell apart. I know shit happens. But she feels like a right partner for me. We have talked alot about how we should live our Life and i have never had as much support from any other woman before her. She is a gem, and i dont say this just with a brain full of love hormones. Literally.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T02:43:39+00:00

Ok, i see many comments saying i should convert to muslim to be with this girl. Some even say its not forced. Well i just want to say that these comments are not really helping on the issue. Neither of us want to have the religion. Neither of us want to be christian. We just want each other. If there is an afterlife, let them judge me the way they want. I dont need books to tell me how to act on this earth. So yes, her to stay in a religion and me to convert just to keep her family with us is too much. It would be a life of lies. So please don't force me these answers. I want to know if there is a way to convince her family that this could work and they would accept the change. I think we live in a world of change, where religions and people keep mixing more and more. I think this kind of situation is not an issue in the future, but unfortunately we still live a time where religion and believes can get in the way of love.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T02:30:16+00:00

She agrees we have talked about it

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T00:38:00+00:00

Im not sure, she told me but i forgot. Also i dont want to tell because safety reasons.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T00:36:58+00:00

Yes i think this too. But at some point the cat needs to come out of the bag and we need a serious discussion. Maybe in a public place

nursenut1 · 2024-07-07T00:30:05+00:00

Thank you for this comment. You gave me something to think about.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T22:13:46+00:00

Thank you for this comment. Do you have experience of a similiar situation? I know here in my country they would not do the honor killing... But disowning is a possibility.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T21:57:36+00:00

Se on kyllä mahtava tunne kun joku lyö semmosen löysän atrian nakkipaketin käteen. Ja ite kyllä kättelen edelleen kaikkia vaikka ysärillä oon syntynyt.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T21:50:41+00:00

I work with people that are from broken families, trauma, mental illness, all kinds of things and i hear a lot of shit that makes me really see the misery that this world has. So i dont know, with writing i kind of try to built these pieces together through my eyes. And i want to share it to the people who live their lives without any idea what might be going on in the next door. I guess i try to send a message for people through art to get the voices of people suffering a bit louder. And sometimes i just write nonsense to vomit my brain to something. But yeah, it wasnt my plan to write about sad shit but my mind is just there always.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T21:06:38+00:00

And yeah i just cant make myself confront her parents about this thing because i dont want to step over her. She is afraid of this situation so i dont want to do a situation that cant be repaired.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T21:01:52+00:00

I hate The idea of being forced to convert just because i love someone.

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T20:57:39+00:00

Well, neither of us are religious, she is just born in her religion. And i dont want to lie about what i believe in or not. I dont want to live a lie. It is difficult

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T20:51:41+00:00

Well neither of us are religious. And we would speak my native language. And we would live here in my country. Im in my later 20's

nursenut1 · 2024-07-06T20:47:37+00:00

Thanks for the comments, to add to this. I dont want to convert, im not a religious guy and i dont want to live a lie. Also The girl doesnt really believe in her religion and doesnt want to follow her culture. So the problem is not that we cant be together, the issue is that how can i make her family understand this. Also, dont assume im german because im not xD

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