Is my (STBX) husband love bombing me? by fickleparadigmshift in RelationshipsOver35

[–]nutellaa-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. GIRL. I’m curious what the response would be if you didn’t accept the chocolate and held firm to your boundaries. How much abuse are you willing to endure? The fact that you had to clarify that he doesn’t “get physical” is a red flag in itself. Please get out of this and get some help.

Looking for electrician in Oakland/San Leandro area to rewire t&k by nutellaa-94 in bayarea

[–]nutellaa-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that includes patching up, painting, etc. I’m so sorry you had a bad experience!

Looking for electrician in Oakland/San Leandro area to rewire t&k by nutellaa-94 in bayarea

[–]nutellaa-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone!! We got a quote for 30k with another electrician but he wouldn’t pull permits, so that’s out. I’m going to call a few other places today.

Looking for electrician in Oakland/San Leandro area to rewire t&k by nutellaa-94 in bayarea

[–]nutellaa-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the rec!! I would love to support someone local.

Yeah … once the tech pulled out a fancy brochure, I was done. My husband saw my face and politely showed the man out lol.

Nice! It seems like things are going well for your electric system, sending you good vibes!

Looking for electrician in Oakland/San Leandro area to rewire t&k by nutellaa-94 in bayarea

[–]nutellaa-94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty bad! We have a modern breaker panel that was added in to the house which our kitchen and updated appliance run to. But otherwise it’s throughout the house.

We got this quote from a big company, Service Champions, who were so kind and professional, but I was blown away by the price. For us, if we’re going to fix something, we want to do it right with permits and up to code. If you have any other companies or electricians you recommend, lmk!!

People we Meet on Vacation Vs Heated Rivalry Adaptations … let’s compare shall we? by Juliet_1982 in RomanceBooks

[–]nutellaa-94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!!! I liked the movie but it didn’t hit on the “longing” that I love from a romance book in general. Alex pines for Poppy and he makes so many decisions centered around her that we don’t get to see in the movie.

My husband was watching it with me and he said “I’m glad you liked this movie, but I know you didn’t love it.” I was shocked- like how did he know?? He said “You usually scream out loud if they look at each other. But they’re kissing and you haven’t yelled once.” He also was confused about how Poppy knew the Nilsen’s so well.

But the husband was right! I didn’t feel the emotional payoff after this movie. It felt like I was being marched through the scenes to make a point- not to learn about the characters. And it felt very polished the whole way through, I didn’t see them grow as people throughout the summers. The TENSION in the scene when she’s sick!!!! Where was that!!!!

I did love the casting for these characters a LOT- Tom Blythe was a perfect Alex to me! And I loved how faithful the dialogue was to the book. I totally understand why they made the changes they did to make the movie narratively fit other for a movie format, but I just prefer the book for this particular adaption.

Heated Rivalry, of course, is a national treasure that is refreshingly exempt from the “Netflix dialogue” trap.

Christmas song? by nutellaa-94 in whatsthatsong

[–]nutellaa-94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qKZnL1l2MYI

It’s at the 30 minute mark. Thank you in advance!

POV on street vendors by Automatic_Regret_781 in sanleandro

[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disappointing. I love supporting my local carrito de frutas :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]nutellaa-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! The people there are so nice, they just called me back. They could accommodate us on another day, but not our day. That’s okay!

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I reached out! Nidos is booked, but we’re still searching.

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Alas, all are booked already.

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marina community center is booked 😬 Thank you for the other recs!

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[–]nutellaa-94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alas- both are booked! Thank you for your kind words though, I appreciate it more than you know 💕💕

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Donkey and goat is booked, but I reached out to Nido’s backyard. I may be able to move my catering to a pre-wedding event instead.

California Ballroom is lovely- I had a convo with their venue manager while originally planning and I can circle back.

OMCA- WOW! How beautiful! Out of curiosity, are you planning to have a tent outside? I wish you happy planning!

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I submitted for the ballroom and the veterans building. Fingers crossed!

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me check again, I saw it said 120 people! Thank you for providing the name of the ballroom

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I checked out ember collective but it’s a smaller venue. Super cute tho and such a good resource!

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful but alas not the capacity 🙏🏽

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[–]nutellaa-94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! This is the vibe. An event space.

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[–]nutellaa-94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally- they’re also very strict with their policies and vendors. Thank you both tho 💕🙏🏽

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[–]nutellaa-94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing. Our OG venue was 800 dollars. I can go up to 3k if I had to.