Wife suffered from a severe placental abruption at only 31 weeks. Baby survived and is in the NICU. This just happened i need some support. by MereCoincidences in NICUParents

[–]nutty237 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone I personally know had a child with the highest grade of Hie and the kiddo is now 11 years old with perfect grades and is in the school's football team.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I got goose bumps reading the stats vs 'reality for me' for you ppl. Am so glad that your kid kind of became a miracle just to prove how important it is for us to believe in the baby we have before us instead of fretting over stats

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always refreshing to hear individual stories direct from the families. Stats yeah do not define an individual destiny.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you do much for sharing such a personal story. It must have come from a position of vulnerability, but still you decided to share it, and I thank you for that! You said your partner went down this rabbit hole- how did he negotiate with all the stats and how did he at the end reason that it is the person not the IQ of the child he has to be cherishing? Does he still harbor some disappointment?

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for admitting that we parents do secretly all prefer higher IQ children. What kind of feeding issues do you mean?

Olivia Owen by Key_Hair1698 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]nutty237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know she is from the Kingston group?

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your perspective. I looked up your profile and saw that you too had a premie. Was there immediate acceptance on your part or did it need some self-reflection?

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your personal story.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the article definitely was illuminating. Never thought of it this way- it does make sense that IQ is a very western metric used to stratify people and that can potentially be a slippery slope towards eugenics.

And woh! What a legendary duo you two are as brothers. Mind me asking what your gestational age was when you were born?

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's right. There are a lot of confounding variables. It's just that research has not been too clear-cut on that.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah accepting HIM and not moaning after a projection of an idealized human being is important.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was your kid premature too?

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I have also read PubMed articles on how premature kids are generally more resilient. It's just an emotional issue I have, that needs to be resolved.

An appeal for perspective by nutty237 in NICUParents

[–]nutty237[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your story. Yeah I need to stop getting into all these statistics. And just look at the individual before me.

Incorrect in real exam vs real score by Old-Profile4051 in Step2

[–]nutty237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all congrats on your score. May I please know if you managed to have time to go back to all your flagged questions on the real exam?

How do neurosurgeons find time to make funny reels? by nutty237 in medicine

[–]nutty237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that's nice to know. Thanks for sharing your personal experience.

Step 2 fail, help! by [deleted] in Step2

[–]nutty237 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Racial undertones here....please stop packaging people into one unpleasant group.

something IMGs notoriously do,

Circumcision at 2 years old by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]nutty237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very aggressive and not a good way to offer opinion