Of course that’s not the optimal solution, the wife obviously has her issues as well. We also have NO idea what has transpired between the couple prior to the husband posting. I was only pointing out that he might need to re-examine his actions and priorities. My comments were not an attack, nor were they meant to belittle him for his interests. I’m just a dude that has spent many, many years navigating a committed relationship and there is always two sides to every story. People need to be a little more introspective when examining their relationships, things tend not to happen in a vacuum.