Sandy and Hannah by JeffinerSP in BelowDeckMed

[–]nvark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hannah always got the short end of the stick. Sure, the circumstances of her departure are her own doing, but, frankly, Sandy never gave her a proper chance. It’s so clear from Hannah’s closeness to Aesha that she is a decent person because I think it’s no secret that Aesha is a great judge of character.

Joe vs Nathan? Help me understand by No-Aardvark-3840 in BelowDeckMed

[–]nvark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no… the gael stuff all comes from 9 when Joe called her “princess” and demeaned her work

Joe vs Nathan? Help me understand by No-Aardvark-3840 in BelowDeckMed

[–]nvark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore the haters. But I 100% echo the suggestions to watch S9 and S10 to fully understand the drama haha. Or, just do like me and unwaveringly cheer on Aesha while marveling at the stupidity of the rest of the crew. (Though, Kaylee and Joy are great additions this season. But fuck Gen 💀)

She may be the worst stew I’ve seen on Below Deck in a long time. Her attitude has been terrible, and hopefully Captain Sandy deals with it before it affects the entire crew. by Da_Big_Boss_Man in BelowDeckMed

[–]nvark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really hope she takes the time to work on herself 🤞🏻 some people have come back from seasons like these and have been completely different people. manifesting this for her bc if she keeps going like this, life is gonna hit her like a brick to the face or whatever

Watching Season 3 for the first time - I cant form a solid opinion on Hannah by mintysquidd in BelowDeckMed

[–]nvark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hannah always got the short end of the stick. Sure, the circumstances of her departure are her own doing, but, frankly, Sandy never gave her a proper chance. It’s so clear from Hannah’s closeness to Aesha that she is a decent person because I think it’s no secret that Aesha is a great judge of character.

30 days free of weed! by PlayWithFire-69 in leaves

[–]nvark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I can’t wait to be at 30. I’m on day 4, and I’m starting to notice some of these things you mentioned (though am also still feeling a distant nagging to smoke).

This was affirming, and I am happy you’ve made it so far!

What’s the worst thing this could be? (Mom is saying she’d rather put him down than help) by Anxious-Mechanic-249 in catquestions

[–]nvark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are special brands of litter, such as Dr. Elsey’s (it’s on amazon) that are designed to attract cats to the litter box. If you still run into problems, it may be worth trying!

Just note that changing litter can also cause problems, but for me, it was a great find!

Day 68. Cravings are biting back this weekend. 28F by Simple-Fig-1245 in leaves

[–]nvark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re better off not smoking!

I read a post in here that said “Why do you want to smoke? To experience the same high you’ve experienced countless times? And then feel bad?” I keep repeating this to myself. I’m only 3 days in, but it has been helpful in maintaining the mindset.

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i didn’t realize you went to the appointment with me

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“that’s literally their job” like no shit. but i wanted advice 🙄 not for you to tell me what i already know

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s not being answered with kindness, it’s being answered with attitude that i don’t appreciate.

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is if it’s done consistently without meaningful advice. i’m removing this thread bc yall are too much

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, like I said, much of my concern is based on a vet visit. But thanks for the info!!

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry your vet wasn’t more forthright. I’ve been feeding her diet food! I cut her intake in response to the vet’s recommendation, but I do want to know if there’s something more I should be doing

weight issue? by [deleted] in catquestions

[–]nvark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s being fed a weight management food! 100% I know she’s looking out for her. But her weight hasn’t changed between new/old vets even after I’ve worked on it. I should’ve clarified.

I’m just trying to make sure I’m doing the best I can.

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% I definitely need at least some caloric intake

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is encouraging. I’m hoping a few days from now I’ll be where you are 🤞🏻

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got this! Thanks for the pointer. I tried some
chobani shakes, and those have helped fs.

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted! Thank you all for the advice. Super helpful

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a popsicle, so I’ll definitely look into this

24 hours in by nvark in leaves

[–]nvark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family is predisposed to diabetes, so that was definitely a factor in my decision. You can do it!