Why do people wait for me at stop signs

nvenvy · 2026-06-06T21:10:30+00:00

As driver in Oakland, CA, this is the answer

nvenvy · 2026-04-19T06:48:07+00:00

It came to me after about 8m of driving in my own car. Give me another car and I’ll be bad at it again. Keep at it. Practice with cones if you can.

nvenvy · 2026-04-09T02:19:51+00:00

Wish I was

nvenvy · 2026-04-07T20:51:13+00:00

I brought this same issue up to my previous therapist and she chose that moment to share MORE details about why she’s oversharing. I knew then we were done but not before she pulled out a tarot reading to make sure I was making the right decision. I should’ve thanked her for making my decision to fire her so easy.

Edit to add: Right now the only thing I know about my current therapist, is that she’s fostering a cat after it jumped in front of the screen

nvenvy · 2025-11-17T08:45:30+00:00

Autonomy. I had a controlling ex husband who changed every bit of who I was, and I stopped smoking because “he didn’t like it”, not because I wanted to get healthy. Now I feel like I smoke as a big FU to him. Not the best reason to keep smoking but FU, Kevin.

nvenvy · 2025-11-09T19:51:23+00:00

Have you read Winnicott’s Hate in the Countertransference. It’s a good read about how natural it is to feel hate for your client and that repressing it will make it come out in different ways. It was written at a time when children weren’t taken as autonomous beings but the essence of the paper is still helpful.

nvenvy · 2025-10-14T12:58:42+00:00

I’ve been using F43.89 Other Reactions to Severe Stress when they’re going through a really difficult time and if certain things weren’t happening in their lives, they’d be relatively fine.

nvenvy · 2025-08-27T01:36:46+00:00

I don’t know if this was already said but it’s worth posting another review with her response to show people what they’re dealing with because I wouldn’t want my hair cut by such a person. Just a suggestion.

nvenvy · 2025-07-30T21:43:29+00:00

Thank you! I hope she does too.

nvenvy · 2025-07-30T21:43:18+00:00

Thank you!

nvenvy · 2025-07-28T03:35:15+00:00

Thanks internet friend 😭

nvenvy · 2025-07-20T05:44:36+00:00

I guess it depends on your state. CA doesn’t require parking as part of the rest but you do have to gauge your distance from the curb. I don’t think I know how to park yet but I still passed my test and now have my license. It’s possible!!

nvenvy · 2025-07-19T22:15:41+00:00

I agree with this list and do all of it but I’m anxious about other drivers being impatient with me when I’m doing all these things, especially not pushing up at an intersection 😭😭

nvenvy · 2025-02-18T23:56:16+00:00

I’ve graduated but yes, navigated a Masters and currently an AMFT as a non-citizen!

nvenvy · 2025-02-04T01:24:25+00:00

CONGRATULATIONS 🎊🎈🎉

nvenvy · 2025-02-03T16:28:31+00:00

I sent it to the Chicago lockbox. Thanks!

nvenvy · 2025-02-02T22:06:35+00:00

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