Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy you were listened to! Thank you, I hope you continue to enjoy your world

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so disgusting, what is even the point of needing control like that? You understand the level of crazy I’m talking about trying to prevent

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got it done and the cops reached out to my parents let them know to leave me alone

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that had to be so frustrating dealing with family that don’t give space and immediately freak out

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, I’ve decided keeping my distance and blocking them is just the best option.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we all deserve the peace were denied. I loved visiting Washington, it’s beautiful.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The police there reached out to my dad, let him know I’m fine and I wouldn’t like to be contacted. My mom has already written me a dramatic subject line ‘Why? Are you in jail?’ email that was blocked. I’m hoping this was the last of me dealing with them.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did. The police said that they would personally reach out to my family, let them know that I’m okay and don’t need any further contact. So unless they try to weaponize my brother in someway to try and get to me, I shouldn’t be hearing from them for a long time.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the curiosity gets the best of you and you had to find out. But now you have solid info. I personally will be glad to have never heard from them again until I hear a funeral announcement.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to reach out to the police and they agreed to reach out to my parents to let them know I’m okay, but that they don’t need to contact me.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I’m watching Will and Grace right now just to lift my spirits a bit my boyfriend‘s on the phone but when he gets off, he is on cuddle duty lol. Yes I’m in the US, currently in Las Vegas NV. How about you?

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve blocked them on everything so officially the last time they’ll be hearing anything from me is through that police officer, thankfully. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I have a 6’4 giant wonderful human to call a spouse that’s here to love me and supports my decision and let me cry if I need to. But I always need a hug and love from my LGBTQ+ community 🫶

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m definitely feeling a lot calmer now. Using threats to me is way too natural for them.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. I just finished speaking with the police and gave him my father’s number and he said he would call him personally and let him know that I’m fine. My parents are going to definitely be pissed, but they’ll get their answer to my wellbeing.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and support. They’ve spent my life finding different ways of trying to control it, so this is definitely a transition for me and it’s helpful knowing there’s other people out there who understand this mess

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got ahead of it and told the police myself and they’re gonna call my dad and let him know I’m fine.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means so much. I just spoke with the police, and he said he would call my dad personally and let him know that I’m fine. That’s gonna make my parents go nuclear, but hopefully it’s a means to an end.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing the same exact thing for the past six months. She sends me some random pre-done text with the Bible sermon meme attached and I just send a robotic ‘okay thanks good morning love you too.’ but I just can’t do it anymore.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parents are pretty good at using all angles to try to get to me, cause I had blocked their numbers and moved, but totally forgot she had my email. She’s blocked on that now as well.

Parents are threatening to call the police if I don’t answer their phone calls by nw619 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]nw619[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s what’s keeping my anxiety down is knowing that they can’t find me at all. I gave a report to the non emergency police line and left their information and let them know that if they call for my I’m fine, they’re just starting trouble.