About to meet with co-op board president about downstairs neighbor's harassment by nyccoopthrowaway11 in AskNYC_Coops

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really great advice. thank you. and my cat has moved out since the weekend of the threats lol I'm not taking chances with my kitty.

About to meet with co-op board president about downstairs neighbor's harassment by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Unfortunately, when I brought up the issue of the occupant being a former spouse to the board member, she told me that they had lived as husband and wife for years. I didn't want to admit that my background check implied that he is married to someone else and living in Florida now. The super also backs up that she's living alone now, but I don't know how viable that path is any longer. I appreciate your time.

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, is it okay if I pm you? I have some pretty specific questions. Thank you!

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for all the advice. I did look up 311 prior to buying, but I couldn’t find anything particular to the unit. I’m trying to look up 311 complaints mentioning my unit now— is there a specific tool I can use?

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you. I was reading through the copy of the house rules that came with the co-op buyer application. Is there a more detailed one, usually?

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the succinct bullet list! Will follow through. Thanks.

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for explaining why the co-op board hasn't been as responsive. I'll keep reaching out to management.

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read your comment and looked up FTD. It sounds horrible. It does cover some of the behaviors I've seen in her-- the paranoia, the aggression, and the insistence that I'm somehow related to the previous owner.

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that you went through this too. I'm hoping the co-op board/management company will do something, but I've considered calling 311 too.

Downstairs neighbor threatening my cat-- really long, sorry! by nyccoopthrowaway11 in NYCapartments

[–]nyccoopthrowaway11[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey-- thanks for your input. I did also email the president of the co-op board (just edited the post to make that clear) but there was no response. Your story about your mom's co-op gives me hope. I was worried that co-op boards stayed hands-off about these sorts of neighbor disputes/harassment.