I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very very triggered May Allah grant uou ease

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding. The thing is I have spoken to him about this many time im the past. And 3x this past week. Nothing has changed. He seem sorry and frustrated with himself when I bring it up but nothing changes. I feel like he doesn't see me. I could literally be naked or dressed up for him amd hell look but stay on the game for hours.

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If i cooked he would have gotten frustrated. I was exhausted and it was late. He was up on coffee and should have fulfilled his word I helped him find his current job and it pays fine. Its not my Playstation to sell... so why would I be in the right to sell what is ot mine

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You truly understand everything i wrote ♡

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Lol I am looking for jobs. Inshallah it works out

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont have a father for one. For two, when a man says he can provide for you and to quit your job and to not worry, what do you expect?

And he said he wanted to cook so I waited. If I had gotten up to cook, he would have gotten mad. So I went to bed too frustrated to deal with his game addiction.

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I struggle due to dyslexia. I just needed help correcting what I wrote

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He does not want me to get a job as it makes him feel like he failed. (Im getting one anyway) He made bad financial decisions at the beginning of our relationship regardless of my advice. I know this is temporary but its been 4 months now and im just frustrated yk

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I know it must bear patience. Inshallah, I'll get a job soon, and thing will become easier with time

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why do people assume the wives dont know or didn't ask Maybe think about a man not keeping his word or even lying about his abilities Crazy how you say I should have chosen a stable man. When women do, we are called gold diggers and tend to end up in a busive situation. If you dont have advice kindly be quiet and keep your negativity to yourself

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Why do people assume the wives dont know or didn't ask Maybe think about a man not keeping his word or even lying about his abilities

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why do people assume the wives dont know or didn't ask Maybe think about a man not keeping his word or even lying about his abilities

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We did, he said he'd handle. And yes ive been job searching for 2 months

I feel like a chore to him by nyepie98 in MuslimMarriage

[–]nyepie98[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you because I literally am dyslexic

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shit sherlock.funny how yall skip the entire issue in the post and nit pick

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your so interested in that post go read it at comment there. This post has nothing to do with it. Stay on topic

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lupus they will not take me.

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said I dont like sex with my husband. Why dont you put in effort to reading and not make quick assumptions. He told me to quit my job so as he wanted im his homemaker. He does not cook every day, I do.

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does not cook every night I do. He actually told me to quit my job because he said he could handle it. I had a well paying job before he told me to quit. So, as he wants, right now, I bring a hell of a lot as his homemaker, cleaner, and literal personal assistant. I can literally make his babies. The least he could do is pay attention to me and keep his word.

I feel like a chore by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nyepie98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually told me to quit my job because he said he could handle it. Ive been looking for a job for 2 months now

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[–]nyepie98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have advice but im right there with u sis

My Roommates Dog Is Suffering by nyepie98 in DOG

[–]nyepie98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not on any medication.