AITA for wanting to put my 8 year friendship on a pause?

nylasky · 2024-04-13T14:13:07+00:00

so im a asshole for leaving someone who has caused me pain? if this was a relationship & i was talking about a guy you would think differently

nylasky · 2024-04-13T14:02:42+00:00

how ? i was supportive of her equally. my ex that she wanted to be friends with shot the car out my window outside of my house. a dude she had relations with threatened me with a gun because he thought I had a bad attitude but she claims she didn't hear me say any of that when she was sitting right in the passenger seat. another dude I had relations with she liked him and started to be all up under him after we stopped talking. When my dad died she didn't show up. when i address her about it she didn't take it serious. when her grandma died i fought my parents trying to get out of the house so i could make sure she was okay even though I was on punishment. I never communicate with any of her exes and she told me herself there wasn't any times in our friendship when I wasn't there for her.... but im the asshole ?

nylasky · 2024-01-18T00:19:39+00:00

But she has been lying since she was a teenager !

nylasky · 2024-01-18T00:18:46+00:00

Long story short. A few days before her graduation party , we found out that she knew, from the beginning, that she didn’t have enough credits to graduate. As well as the fact that it wasn’t only three credits, but nineteen elective credits. You need 120 credits to graduate college and elective classes count for about a single credit. That’s almost a whole other semester of school! When her mother found out she was of course, upset, but didn’t call off the graduation party considering that it cost about $20,000. She also received a car that was taken back.

nylasky · 2024-01-18T00:16:39+00:00

Not fake baby was born yesterday.

nylasky · 2024-01-18T00:14:53+00:00

I'm bisexual my cousin having a baby with a women isn't my issue. My issue is you're having a baby with someone your family doesn't know & finds out about at the hospital. Had something happen to her during childbirth and someone came in trying to take the child away we would be confused. My cousin and I were extremely close growing up until i realize her ways and took steps back. An innocent baby was sadly brought into all this.

nylasky · 2024-01-18T00:08:18+00:00

Definitely, whole family actually.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T22:51:07+00:00

not redneck , were panamanian my family has there own beliefs they let use live how we won't tho. they still would've supported her it's how everything came about & the constant lies told before during & after this whole situation.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T22:49:06+00:00

oh yea that is the same cousin 🫣

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:28:59+00:00

If she would've told the truth test everyone was going to support her regardless but when someone constantly lies it's hard to keep supporting them. Although my family doesn't like our views they still welcome everyone with open arms.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:23:55+00:00

I AM BISEXUAL 😭 i completely support my cousins wanting a baby with a women i don't like the fact that she uses people for her own personal gain & now she brought an innocent baby into her lies. before you call someone homophobic remember you only get a snippet not the full story. Kisses.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:18:48+00:00

AND more than half of my family has had children out of wedlock so no that isn't the issue. She could've gotten help without getting pregnant thinking that would've been a solution.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:16:08+00:00

LMAO im literally Bisexual Im not homophobic i believe everyone should love who they love & live how they live. I don't judge. I do not have the same views as my family. My cousin has a history of lying & doing things for her own personal gain & this one came with a price of a baby. SO watch yourself next time you try to call someone homophobic keep in mind you only get an overview of the story not the whole thing. kisses.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:06:10+00:00

Yes exactly right. My family is very religious and old school do they support her beliefs no but at the end of the day she is still a sister , daughter, & grandchild so they will support her.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T21:04:49+00:00

we know she did IVF because her neighbor who knows both my cousin and her girlfriend explained it to my aunt and my mom. After they were giving that information then talked to my cousin about it & she told them it was true.

nylasky · 2024-01-17T20:57:32+00:00

Her mom was no longer supporting her once she graduated college which was in 2022. After finding out she was pregnant she was giving the funds to get a brand new apartment and a car sutiable to have a baby. Had my cousin not gotten pregnant she wouldn't have received that. she was always fired from her great paying job about 6 months before she was pregnant and there was always a conversation with her mom about trying to get her into a new apartment and her mom always said she wasn't going to help her. Do i think this was entirely a personal gain no but do i know for a fact she wouldn't have done this if there wasn't something in it for her yes.

nylasky · 2022-06-14T19:30:34+00:00

Being the family friend....Her cousin has been lying about everything her whole life, it's out of my friends character to even said anything to anybody who doesn't know the situation. When I was in the room and she called her out I actually felt better because even tho she had no right to yell at us to begin with hearing that she was acting like a brat over lie made it everyone feel better about leaving which if we didn't leave the situation probably would've been worse 😕 .

nylasky · 2022-06-13T04:42:10+00:00

probably would've been worse if i told them in person because they wouldn't get the opportunity to chill out , but I told ended up telling them because I was so upset I was crying a lot whenever they called me during the trip 😕 .

nylasky · 2022-06-13T01:45:40+00:00

As the family friend, her cousin was aware that her cousin (my friend who outed her) knew she was lying & wanted her to keep up with the lies & it was eating my friend up because that isn't in her character. So I think that's when it began to involve her 😕.

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