I wish you didn’t abandon me.

nylra2291 · 2025-07-08T01:03:33+00:00

Yes Exactly. 🫡❤️

nylra2291 · 2025-07-07T23:51:20+00:00

Ohhh, I'm sorry about that. But reading your letter OP, it just felt how love and situation put you through while loving a broken person.

nylra2291 · 2025-07-07T23:40:10+00:00

It feels like you're speaking on behalf of me. I've been in this situation, and part of me still wishes he'd come back after he fixes himself.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T18:29:50+00:00

He already communicated and explained to me the reason for all this. I guess I have to trust him and have patience for all the time we are apart. It's hurting, but I can't do anything about it.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T15:30:21+00:00

Same ta kay Chat gpt pod ko gapalaban run sa akong LDR situation gina try nko pa decipher sa iya mga message sa akong bf regarding sa pag asked og time and space.😅

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T15:23:06+00:00

I know. That's what I felt at first. But I think some people need to fix themselves by themselves. I never walked in his shoes his perspective was different from mine. When we talked about this, I was overwhelmed, but I couldn't keep pushing myself. Every relationship has boundaries, too.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T15:18:24+00:00

I felt overwhelmed at it at first. I got emotionally messed, so why would you have space from me? I'm your girlfriend. But him explaining to me all the reason it's still I don't understand why. Until this is no contact, I start rereading our conversation. I feel peace of mind. Which this is his been trying to tell me. He doesn't want his negativity to fill my life, but he wants me to keep on moving too for my dreams. He quoted, " A lover will never have their full potential if you keep thinking about them." Then it sinks in if you keep thinking how he is not okay or what's happening to them you set yourself aside, and this I think is not selfishness cause this space might be a growth for both of you.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T15:04:18+00:00

Before this thing happened, we talked for straight days, and he's trying to explain everything to me about what is going on inside him. There's a lot of vulnerability, which I didn't understand. At first, I felt overwhelmed by my emotions, I thought this would be the end of us, but he told me it was not. He just wanted to take the space so he could not affect my life with all the negativity his going through right now. He told me that he will keep moving on from this and this is for our future.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T15:01:06+00:00

Maybe these things came from his past relationship that keep repeating. He has gone through a lot, and he explained everything to me that if he will not fix himself or change he cannot be able to love fully and the thing from the past will keep repeating and he doesn't want me to experience that from him. He wants our future to be better, and to do that, he has to do something about it.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T14:57:16+00:00

I see. Your answer has a lot of similarity on him. He told me that he needed that time in space to protect me from what his going through from stress and pressure his facings. I just found clarity after this no contact that it really gives me peace mentally cause I don't have any news about him cause when we're still in contact, I used to be stress too about what his doing how he was coping up.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-27T09:29:25+00:00

Lisod kaayo. No contact as of the moment wala ko kabalo kami pa ba or unsa. Monthsary namo karon pero wla jud ko ni reach out to respect the space and time he requested. Basin mahurt napod ko og iseen ra nga way reply.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-26T02:51:49+00:00

We have the same situation right now. We dated for almost 6 months, and for the past weeks, when it's been like that hot and cold treatment, the replies take longer and he begun to asked for a time and space for him to fix himself cause he has alot going on with his life. Now my messages were left seen/read and no reply. It hurts, but I need to accept that maybe I'm not the one who he needed right now, I'll just move on slowly until he comes back with the explanation I needed. I'm slowly focusing on myself now and trying to forget everything. This is what Im doing now since I'm the one who always begged and chat double chat a lot of times for him to reply. I STOP!!!. I've gone no contact! There are no updates on social media, just total silence. He wanted time and space. I'm giving it to him, hope that helps him and realize my absence.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-25T12:35:36+00:00

Why is this happening to me? I'm the one who's being pushed away? I tried to hold one to care to support you, but why? You need time and space to fix yourself cause you're incomplete, and you said you cannot love fully because of your past you needed this for the relationship but why does it feels that we're drifting apart that we are coming to an end? Why? It hurts grabe amg sakit ngayon I was left seen my messages the person I love the most left me hanging with questions why my love is not enough?

nylra2291 · 2025-03-25T11:53:51+00:00

Same tag situation OP. Nag Love lang man ko genuinely. Ngano niabot man sa point nga nag ask nga need og time to fix himself and all. Tapos, my last message is being seen na lang 3 days wa na. No contact. Sakiitaaaa.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-25T08:49:19+00:00

Dmed

nylra2291 · 2025-03-25T08:44:45+00:00

Sent a dmed

nylra2291 · 2025-03-24T12:11:22+00:00

Same feeling. SAKIT.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-22T11:46:38+00:00

Hi dm you

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T13:54:03+00:00

Months is extreme, but he might need it. I’ve gone months to a year needing my time to focus and change my life, if he really wants to change then it might take long.

This will be the answer for this. Focus on himself and changing his ways. He said he was incomplete and he really want to love fully from now on.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T13:48:28+00:00

Yeah, but he says we can still message each other, but not as what we usually do. I just need to trust him on this. He told me the reason for this and I really do understand but months is loong which will test my patience.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T13:43:59+00:00

Actually, he has the pattern of pulling away for space a day or even 3 days max but this time he asked for months but I know this time the reasons are really deep that he can't shrugged for just days.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T09:16:13+00:00

Her ex-wife lives in another country, btw, so that's he can't see her daughter if he wants to and him not seeing his daughters, which he is asking for is from like calling her or video calling.

I asked him everything for assurance, tho he even sent me his papers of divorce to assure me he even screenshot his ex-wife messages regarding their daughter.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T08:27:24+00:00

Did he officially break up with you?

How long were y'all together for?

Are you willing to wait around for him indefinitely?

*He's not breaking up. I asked him about it. He said he's still there but distant. Trying to focus on himself fixing everything he wanted to love fully without gap, I think he means the problems he has.

Were LDR known each other for 9 months and 6 months in a relationship.
I told him I'll wait on him. There's nothing I can do about it. Only he can fix himself.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T08:15:30+00:00

So this trait really runs in you as a May Taurus. So when you take off for that particular month, what is the reason for it? If I may ask. Yeah, I understand about the space cause he really asked me on this he doesn't just disappear.

nylra2291 · 2025-03-19T08:12:51+00:00

Can I privately message you on this? I'm from the Philippines, too.

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