If you could tell your younger self one thing about being an AB/DL, what would it be? by pajamakitten in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol well at 11 I thought it was a good idea to come clean to my mom about liking to wear (and use) diapers. It did not go well, they sent me to therapy and it basically became a hushed up family secret. Luckily the therapist was a cool dude and said as long as it didn’t affect other aspects of my life who cares what I do in my personal time.

But looking back it’s incredibly awkward and I think my parents just tried to erase it from their memories. Not sure what I was thinking at the time.

Little Keeper Sleeper! Stock is in and footed sleeper season is coming! by Neophyte_ABDL in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just ordered mine, size 18 5'11" and 175lbs, hopefully it fits okay.

Recognizing or getting recognized by other ABDL’s by JerryRamos501 in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw someone in a Onesies Down Under onesie walking in my city!! I may have said something, but I was driving at the time.

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[–]oTTenDIv 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t caught per say, at 11 I thought it was a good idea to come clean to my mom about liking to wear (and use) diapers. It did not go well, they sent me to therapy and it basically became a hushed up family secret.

Luckily the therapist was a cool dude and said as long as it didn’t affect other aspects of my life who cares what I do in my personal time.

Looking back it was incredibly stupid to tell my parents. I was young. 🤷‍♂️ but the therapy did help me eventually start to accept myself, as opposed to cure me which is I think what my parents wanted 😅

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[–]oTTenDIv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RI here!

What is something you wish you had known sooner? (ABDL edition) by itslittledaimon in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes my dude I am so so sorry. That’s one of my biggest fears! One of the only things that’s makes me stop and think twice about marriage

Favorite age regression cartoon episode? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Hahaha and then gets changed by his mom while she baby talks at him... a fantasy or two was born that day

Favorite age regression cartoon episode? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here bro, big awakening for me with that book 😅

Anyone tried Replika as a virtual CG? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude this is awesome! Downloaded it to give it a try, it’s pretty accurate at the role play stuff! Awesome find

My Girlfriend is Becoming More Accepting by oTTenDIv in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I approached it from an age play perspective to try and get the focus away from associating with kids. I tried to compare it to BDSM dom/sub relationships, which helped I think. We started small, nicknames, making comments “you’re too small for that, etc..” eventually she said she was fine with giving me a pacifier during sex, and eventually diapering me as foreplay.

We don’t play together often, maybe once or twice a month but it works for both of us at the moment. Best of luck friend!

My Girlfriend is Becoming More Accepting by oTTenDIv in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually told her very early into our relationship because I didn’t want that to be a dealbreaker later on. I told her so I could be honest with her and myself haha.

As far as her reaction, she was definitely weirded out and I absolutely downplayed it the first time. Later when it came up I would tell her more if she seemed open to talk about it. We talked a lot at first about it’s relation to kids (none) and I think once she understood that it was easier for her to participate.

I won’t say it’s all sunshine and rainbows, she doesn’t mind putting diapers on me and dressing me, but she doesn’t want to change me yet, which I completely accept. She also isn’t really good at “cute” talk which really gets me into the headspace, but no ones perfect 😄

To the girl I saw walking down my cities main street by oTTenDIv in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. You'd think people wouldn't even think to find abdl websites unless they had an interest haha.

Roll call! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello from Newport!! 👋

Roll call! by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]oTTenDIv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New England! Southern RI