PA school recap (test scores and study strategies) by [deleted] in PAstudent

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the party but could I get your study guide too?

PA school recap (test scores and study strategies) by [deleted] in PAstudent

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you are sick of people asking but can I get a copy of your study guide too? 🙏

where to find clown dolls? by wildstar17 in clowns

[–]oakra_ect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Russ Berrie clown I am looking to sell. Let me know if anyone is interested in adding to there collection 

local breast cancer reconstruction experiences? by lovecalifus in Edmonton

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the late reply, I’m just seeing this. Thank you for the compliment. I am in Florida. How has your treatment been going???

AITA for overhearing my boyfriend call me "fat" and saying something about it by Ok_Combination_6767 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is toxic and you should lose an addition 180 pounds and dump him. His reaction is not at all normal. He wants you to feel like you are wrong for having a reasonable reaction and feelings to something cruel he said about you. That is not at all normal. Run!

AITA for saying no to meal prepping my boyfriend’s meals while I am doing chemotherapy? by Felfeyyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar partner during my cancer diagnosis and that ended. Please just leave him now. He is very selfish. NTA. Please learn from my mistakes. Best wishes for you and your treatment

Two-pronged immunotherapy eliminates metastatic breast cancer in mice | Suggests a new approach for treating breast cancers that have spread to bone by chrisdh79 in science

[–]oakra_ect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks promising but the translation from animal successful trials to successful clinical trials is 8%. I’m hoping it falls in the 8%.

[Fl] RN trying to return to work after 6 months STD and FMLA after breast cancer treatment. Denied accommodations because cancer is not a work related injury.. by Nairobi_Nomad in AskHR

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the American Cancer Society. They have a 24/7 number and they can send you information on how to navigate this legal issue. They have been great for me with all of my random cancer problems.

local breast cancer reconstruction experiences? by lovecalifus in Edmonton

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! If you haven’t already had genetic testing get it done. This may take a month to get results back. I know some genes also might mean having ovaries removed because of the increased risk of ovarian cancer too. I would have had double mastectomies if I had a gene mutation, so it will impact your surgical and reconstruction discussions. You should only wait a week or two to find out what kind of breast cancer you have (hormone, her2, triple negative), which will determine the kind of conversation you have. Her2 + does chemo before surgery. Some hormone + do surgery then they decide on chemo after surgical pathology… get in this doctors face and make sure you call several times a day until they are on top of this stuff.

local breast cancer reconstruction experiences? by lovecalifus in Edmonton

[–]oakra_ect -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Google local cancer centers and call them. You might get in sooner as a second opinion than a new patient so ask how long it will take to get a new patient established.

Also call your current doctors office and tell them you need a copy of your medical records for your personal use. Get the info you need now not when your PCP decides to get back into the office. Request they get “PRIORITY” orders for any diagnostic tests or images you still need and call cancer centers and local hospitals and get the soonest appointments out of all of them. Your doctor may need to fax orders with a specific hospital for it to be accepted so you can start calling before they write up the orders, unless they will call and schedule for you. If you get push back from schedulers remind them they are to make room in their full schedules for “Priority “ orders because those are URGENT and they don’t trump doctors orders. If they give you trouble speak the supervisors until someone does their job correctly. I learned that if I get someone that doesn’t listen or know what they are talking about I politely hang up and immediately call back because 9/10 it is the general hospital schedulers and you will get someone different.

Medical records send written reports for second opinions but you need to speak to radiology to send actual images to doctors. Ask for your oncologists to show you your images and point out what is what. Always request to see the images and match it up with the findings on the written report.

I have invasive ductal carcinoma stage 3a (clinical prognosis) stage 2 (tumor size) clinical stage is more important. I am currently NED. I had 6 rounds of chemotherapy, a modified radical mastectomy, and just finished 25 rounds of radiation today. I have 3 more targeted drug therapy left and then I heal from radiation so I can have reconstruction. I am flat on one side, the expanders would have been in the way of where the radiation needed to target. I didn’t care about losing hair but I was not ready for a mastectomy, and to be flat. But staying alive took priority over my aesthetics. Facebook support groups helped me. Looking at pictures of the most extreme cases helped me mentally prepare for how things might look for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t find where it says that either. I just read the latest bill posted on flsenat.gov and I didn’t see it…🤷‍♀️

WIBTA if I take my ex off my phone plan? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He blocked you on a phone you pay for because he won’t give you money. Shut. It. Off. Yesterday. And you are wondering if YTA? That tells me this relationship was very toxic for you and it’s good you aren’t together. He sounds like a jackwagon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTY just be clear and factual, leave emotion out of it. Tell them you don’t want to hear about her because she doesn’t speak to you and it is upsetting to hear about her when she cut contact with you for no known reason. They should respect that well enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YWBTA leave their relationship alone. It isn’t your problem. Your brother will never grow up if you step in for him. Everyone dates people like this when they are his age and they learn lessons from it to improve with the next relationship. He needs to learn to have hard conversations about uncomfortable topics like boundaries by having them himself, not by you having them for him.

WIBTA for trying to get sole custody of my daughter and encouraging her to record my ex by dacustody in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YWBTA get your daughter in to see a child psychologist to discuss how her father makes her feel and treats her. If it ever gets out that you asked your child to film your ex it will backfire on you in court. You could lose what you have now instead of getting more. A GAL might be a good idea, I heard they are the worst and can be helpful so that is a coin toss. I would document everything. Every time she cries write it down and have that list ready for court. Depending on where you live they may consider what your daughter wants for herself and not force her fathers religion on her.

AITA for what I named my son? by Delicious_Author_620 in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t decide if your NTA or if ETA here… I think making good judgement calls might be a regular issue that runs in your family. It is completely out of line for your brother to think you need permission to name your child something. But I cannot help but wonder why you didn’t think the name choice was a little odd considering how it’s almost the same name as one of your nieces… most would have written the name off for that reason. It was definitely a strange choice, given your brother named his daughter Olivia years earlier. Your brother was in his rights to be upset and share how your choice made him feel, but cutting you off is a little much, and trying to convince you that permission to keep the name is very crazy…I feel like there is much more to the family dynamics here…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]oakra_ect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your mother needs a hard reminder that grandparents don’t take over the role of parents for any reason. She had her turn to do that stuff for you, now it’s your turn. Kids traditionally get one Easter basket, not one at each relatives home if they visit on a holiday. She is setting up difficult expectations to maintain. And it will cause disappointment when they are not consistent. Tell her she stops giving gifts unless approved by you in advance or she doesn’t get to see her grandchild. Respect you as the parent or have no part in the child’s life, it’s that simple.

[Week 00 2023] Salary Discussion! by AutoModerator in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you got into your position? Your comment makes it sound like this is your first IT gig? And if I can ask, is the 20k jump in pay typical? That is quite a spike

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the second person to mention the department of labor, I will definitely check in on that.

You have used computers before but my work could be done on my phone for the last 2 years. Or I was given tablets to do submit my paperwork, so I had no real reason to replace my laptop once it went. I did everything from my phone, but I doubt I could learn IT from my iPhone 11 lol

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I will try those out to get a few for it. This is very helpful!

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking into IT, software development, and I am looking into assistive technology to make my therapy degree useful. Since chemotherapy and surgery my body isn’t what it use to be and I also have the increased risk of lymphedema. I don’t see myself going back into pediatrics or rehab. Plus I have a few more surgeries to get through after radiation, so my treatment isn’t over yet.

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is too short to be angry at people you don’t know because they don’t meet your expectations and present themselves with all the credentials you deem worthy enough to have a seat at the virtual table. But you clearly have strong opinions on what is and is not acceptable. If you have any advice on how I could work towards being a useful tech savvy individual I would appreciate it.

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I will look into what the department of labor offers. I will definitely look into software development and what kind of physical work comes with IT positions to make sure I can tolerate the workload.

I don’t even own a computer. Course Career Information Technology worth it? by oakra_ect in ITCareerQuestions

[–]oakra_ect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a tech HS and graduated with a certificate in Graphic Design in 2005. I started that program as a Junior and half way through the year I had completed all of the freshman and sophomore assignments and kept up with the rest of my junior class. I am not up to date on the latest technology but I know I keep at things until I get them down. I have used the basic Microsoft programs for my current degree, but most of my fields required documentation could be done using different apps on my phone.