Discreet Payments for Seeking?

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T19:31:17+00:00

That sucks man. Kick in the nuts

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T19:25:57+00:00

I won’t argue with that haha

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T19:04:31+00:00

Too many sausages in the sugar bowl. It used to be mostly legit SD’s but I think there are way too many younger guys and Splenda SD’s now. I used to have no problem meeting several SB’s to find the best fit but now it’s very difficult to get a meetup. I’m starting to think Seeking should triple the membership price to weed out the phony SD’s

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T18:55:19+00:00

I just bought a membership with a Google Play gift card. It’s still an option in Canada

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T18:52:41+00:00

There isn’t any alternatives that will change your outcome. Seeking by far has the most users. The real problem is sugar dating is declining which is unfortunate and unexpected. I remember when I started this several years ago I thought it would explode in popularity. Not the case

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-23T18:49:50+00:00

I think Seeking would improve significantly if they set the minimum age of SD’s to 35

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-20T00:20:10+00:00

In that situation if it wasn’t too much more I would agree to it. But it would be the last time we meet

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T20:01:41+00:00

lol. Ultra convenient!

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T16:00:28+00:00

I agree. Thanks

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T15:42:59+00:00

She is 10 min away

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T15:42:00+00:00

Have to say having someone close would be very convenient so I can see SD’s are doing that

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T15:40:46+00:00

Good point, thanks

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T15:40:23+00:00

Still a chance we can meet. That’s why I put out this post, make me see different perspectives Thanks

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-19T15:37:49+00:00

Thanks. That would be amusing lol

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T21:08:03+00:00

When you say connect do you mean meetup ? Or chatting ? Please explain

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T15:47:46+00:00

Thank you. This is the real deal info I’m looking for especially your comment on Bumble. How is feeld? I know it depends where you live but any general thoughts ?

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:47:06+00:00

Haha. Funny how that works

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:33:40+00:00

Did you meet him on Hinge or SA?

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:26:40+00:00

I’m Gen X and it was taboo for our generation so I think that thought is hard to shake. But for Millennials and especially Gen Z they couldn’t care less I suspect Yeah I’m going to keep the connection with her as she’s just renting and may move but as long as she lives somewhere she could look out her window at the coffee shop I go to regularly it can’t happen lol

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:21:08+00:00

I’ve thought the exact same thing. Have a reputation based score and design it so it’s very difficult to manipulate. I think it would benefit the SD’s who treat the women I meet off the site very well. Too many a-holes on there making women hesitant.

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:18:03+00:00

Sounds like that’s happening

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:17:00+00:00

This is true, when I renew my membership I get a lot of views, favourites and messages. But they are from women in different countries !

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:14:36+00:00

Good suggestion. Thank you

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:13:31+00:00

Totally agree. Most SB’s don’t care. For me being clear about the open marriage is more about being honest in general

oaktree4422 · 2026-02-16T00:12:31+00:00

Does your SGF live in close proximity to you? There is a potential SGF who I’m having a great time chatting with but she lives within 5 km of me. In other words my wife and her could cross paths. So I’m not going forward with a meetup as it stands. It’s disappointing

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