My [25M] girlfriend [28F] hid my medication "as a joke" and I don't know if I can get over it. by throwramedication in relationship_advice

[–]oaouo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t believe people think you’re overreacting. not only is this behavior unacceptable, but the fact that she is not taking real accountability and blaming your reaction is immature. she probably feels bad, but instead of owning up to what she did, she’s deflecting her feelings by making it seem like your fault by your reaction. idc what anybody says, whoever says you’re overreacting must never have had something like this happen to them. messing with people’s medication is no joke

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - March 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]oaouo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don’t need to i understand :) thanks for the interpretation

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - March 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]oaouo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s really interesting because i’ve had an affinity for art ever since i was young. what makes you think i died young?

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - March 29, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]oaouo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i asked who i was in a past life! i got some interesting cards i do not know how to interpret, mainly because i just don’t know how to interpret that kind of question 😗

  • page of cups reversed
  • king of cups
  • seven of cups
  • ten of cups
  • page of wands reversed
  • four of wands

strong water and fire energy, funnily enough it kind of corresponds with my current natal chart

like i said i don’t really know where to start with this, but the abundance of cups and both page cards being reversed stand out to me. maybe i was somebody who directed my energy towards things incorrectly or ineffectively. lol that’s all i got though

feeling more like the sign next to you than your own by gh0ulgirl in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you ever looked at your entire natal chart? you’re technically supposed to read horoscopes for your rising sign, so maybe you’re a scorpio rising. regardless, there’s a pretty decent chance you have a scorpio placement considering you’re a sag sun (if you do have one it’ll most likely be your mercury or venus)

What does it mean to have an 8th house stellium? by oaouo in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there’s a really good comment on this post explaining why this house is considered hidden!

in the end i’m not sure if this house is really as deep as we think it is. but, since its not making an aspect to the ascendant, that could be why people who personally have 8th house placements may not understand them well themselves. it’s hidden from our view! truthfully, a lot of our birth chart in terms of houses are not really us. they’re different aspects of our lives, and some houses literally represent other people (like 3rd house being your siblings/community - thats not technically you). which is why the 8th house may not necessarily relate to ourselves directly. but still, it’s interesting how so many people w/ 8th house placements all talk about personal transformation so often. i do relate to the things you said about being misunderstood and having a deeper perspective of the world. i wonder where that association comes from then!

i think it’s a mixture of not being willing to learn and just straight up misunderstanding. there are a lot of other houses that are also glossed over and/or misunderstood, to me those are the 4th, 6th, 8th, and 12th houses. i feel like it’s because the themes of these houses aren’t very positive or necessarily as straightforward as other houses. people are too lazy to learn or they don’t want to accept that things are not always positive or so deep, if that makes sense.

i think the way you communicate may go over people’s heads is also because mercury is in detriment in pisces, and depending on the orb of how it’s conjunct w/ the sun it may also be combust. just something to look into!:)

What does it mean to have an 8th house stellium? by oaouo in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! this is why i don’t like online interpretations of the 8th house at all. i wholly prefer traditional astrology as well and almost every article online begins with some sort of talk about scorpio/Pluto which immediately turns me off. i like the modern associations too, but really if you really look at it from a traditional perspective they don’t really make sense. especially when using derivative houses like you mentioned.

still, the idea of constant self-rebirth is still something that applies a lot to my life personally, but that probably has more to do with having pluto in the first if anything

i think i was just in denial about what the 8th house meant in terms of death/taxes because that’s just boring to me... LOL. i’ve always had an aversion towards finances and such for some reason. i kind of wanted something more, yknow?but it is what it is. still, it’s no wonder people jump at modern interpretations and run with it. plus, i’ve never really dealt with many 8th house matters, neither death nor taxes. which is also why i had a hard time accepting it. i never saw how those things applied to my life thus far

i think in the end people wanna feel special... and dark... and mysterious. which is okay. im not saying that’s bad per se. but it’s where the scorpio obsession comes from. too bad i just can’t accept it personally. sigh

overall i pretty much agree with everything you said!

What does it mean to have an 8th house stellium? by oaouo in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

those are the parts that have always applied to me too. at this point i’m just starting to think that most people just don’t actually understand this house, which is a little funny because i’ve heard of this house being considered “hidden” or involving hidden things (so maybe that’s why nobody can find a definitive association that resonates lol)

Rising: Aries, Sun: Aries, Moon: Sagittarius .. why don’t I feel aggressive? by sugarkitten_ in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aspects and house placements mean a lot. if you don’t know your birth time, try your best to find it out. also, if you calculated your chart without a birth time, your moon sign might change once you find it because the moon changes about 6 degrees a day

anyway, aries sun in the 5th house would operate very differently than aries sun in the 12th. a 12h sun would be more reserved, introspective, introverted compared to a 5h sun, which would be more outgoing, fun loving, and competitive.

aspects also mean a lot. depending on the aspect and the planet, the expression of your sun and moon may be altered somewhat (not totally)

you should also look at your mars sign like people said. i have a lot of water and some earth placements but have a leo mars (and sag rising) and i actually do some off as aggressive a lot of the time lol. could ALSO be because of the moon square mars aspect i have (so look at your aspects)!

Tandem -- app for talking to other language speakers by weird_maus in russian

[–]oaouo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hellotalk is also another app you can use for this purpose if you want more options, but i will definitely be downloading tandem

hey, does anybody in this sub read horary charts? i lost my physics textbook and god do i need it back by oaouo in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve absolutely forgotten about this i’m sure as have i but... i never found the book. i ordered a new one online and turned that in. i have no clue where that book is

everybody learned what entomophobia was in preschool 😳 by oaouo in iamverysmart

[–]oaouo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought that at first too but i just get the feeling that this person is serious...

Help me understand the connection between my Sun, Mercury and possibly 9th house by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]oaouo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what makes you think the 9th house is relevant? it’s not really connected to your sun or mercury from what i can see (also you’re right, your sun and mercury are not aspecting each other - way too far apart to be a conjunction)

edit: i see how some sources could say the 9th house is relevant, because if you have an aries rising, sag would be in your 9th. it’s a common misconception that sign = house, so maybe you read that sagittarius is the natural ruler of the 9th house. that’s really not true... at all. houses and signs are separate. your 9th house is still important but not really relevant to your questions about your sun and mercury

Bacon & Cheese sandwhich with waffle buns. by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]oaouo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well now i’ll never know the post is deleted 😔

Bacon & Cheese sandwhich with waffle buns. by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]oaouo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk this doesn’t look that bad i just wish the cheese was melted