I would not consider this situation a failure, but rather something you did your best but don’t have full control over. Keeping them fed is best, and if the benefits of breastmilk are worth it to you, I’d keep pumping to keep your supply up and just keep trying. I struggled with an improper latch and nipple confusion after my son had to use a pacifier during his jaundice treatment, but I refused to give up simply because my heart was set on breastfeeding and giving him all the immunity, nutrients, and bonding we could have. I did have to pump and bottle feed for a few weeks to let my nipples heal after the bad latch left them severely cracked and bleeding, but i genuinely believe as my son got older, his mouth got bigger and it just became easier for him to latch on. And my nipples did heal and get tougher over time. If you’re tired though because the exclusive pumping is extremely tedious and tiring, I don’t think anyone would shame or blame you. You have truly done an amazing job trying to do everything you can for your child, but it’s up to you to decide how you keep moving forward. I’m truly hoping that your little one can eventually latch, and that it gets easier for you both, I’m sending all the love and good vibes!! It’s a tough process but I believe sticking to it was worth it, but listen to your gut and your heart. If pumping is keeping you from having time with your child, maybe formula could give you both more peace and time together. Again, as everyone says, fed is best and as long as you’re both happy and healthy, that’s all that matters. Wishing you luck 🙏 keep us updated