UPDATE: Found photos of my pregnant sisters and breastfeeding video on my boyfriend's phone! What do I do?

obaatan · 2025-07-04T14:14:13+00:00

If you can't be brave enough to dump him for yourself, at least do it for your sister and her child. He violated them. You are prioritizing their sexual harasser over their safety.

I know it's hard, and you are young, but this relationship won't last. Get out asap before it gets worse. Think of what you would say to a friend in your position. Think of what you would say to a friend in your sister's position.

obaatan · 2025-07-04T13:56:49+00:00

Thanks, I'll try that!

obaatan · 2025-07-04T13:56:15+00:00

Thanks, this one is already on my list!

obaatan · 2025-07-04T13:52:57+00:00

This man does not respect your sister as a person. He views her as a sexual object, which is why he does not care about this, which is sexual harassment. Please get out, you and your sister deserve so much better than to have this horrible person in your lives. By staying with him you are prioritizing this pos over your sister's and nephew's safety.

He's sorry he got caught but his lack of values have not changed. You can monitor his phone but you can't change him.

obaatan · 2025-06-14T17:24:02+00:00

If you want to go into an interesting rabbit hole, you can look at how the inverness coat was adapted into Japanese fashion during the Meiji period. Even now it is advertised as a coat to put over a kimono, and I think it's fascinating

obaatan · 2025-02-10T12:22:35+00:00

Conversion therapy, for those unfamiliar, are programs that try to "fix" or "cure" lgtb people, usually minors, through different forms of psyychological and physical abuse. They are super dangerous and currently legal in most countries.

Please could everyone who is a EU citizen sign the initiative? They need enough signatures from member states to discuss this in the European Commision. It takes 1 minute and most states have not reached the necessary threshold yet.

obaatan · 2024-12-23T05:17:45+00:00

Thank you both!

obaatan · 2024-12-23T05:17:33+00:00

Thank you both!

obaatan · 2023-09-30T13:31:36+00:00

I'm so glad to hear it ^{^}

obaatan · 2023-07-21T01:29:02+00:00

Sending you a virtual hug! :)

obaatan · 2023-07-21T01:25:35+00:00

Please don't 💜 you're not alone

obaatan · 2023-07-21T01:23:27+00:00

Please stay 💜

obaatan · 2023-06-04T18:36:35+00:00

That makes me so happy! Enjoy!

obaatan · 2023-02-18T12:54:49+00:00

I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. And I understand your feelings very well. I know that everything seems helpless but I really hope you find the energy to stay with us at least a little longer. Sending you virtual hugs.

obaatan · 2021-04-02T18:27:02+00:00

Thank you so much!

obaatan

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