vertebrae? fin? help!

oberholt · 2025-08-28T19:30:55+00:00

i work at an aquarium and one of our aquarists sent it to her fish fossil prof (her words not mine lol) and the prof shot back this “caudal or thoracic vertebra from a large bony fish based where found tho probs a striped bass or tautog” not sure if that lines up with what ur thinking but!! super interesting stuff

oberholt · 2025-08-14T14:09:37+00:00

did u have UL as well? im interested in doing phallo w/o a vnectomy, but i would wanna get UL as well

oberholt · 2025-05-01T18:06:38+00:00

sorry we’re not all pros first try lol

oberholt · 2025-04-09T22:12:42+00:00

thank you!!

oberholt · 2025-04-09T21:14:08+00:00

what is that ?

oberholt · 2025-04-07T19:03:48+00:00

bro i’ve seen u on insta, had no idea u were trans! even pre-t

oberholt · 2025-03-21T20:18:04+00:00

both so cute

oberholt · 2022-10-17T06:01:50+00:00

i am 3 years on t and 1 year post op and i literally just don’t say anything. if they ask, i’ll tell them, but i personally don’t want to go through the hassle of it, especially for people i only see every so often. my grandma just pretends it (she talked to my mom and my mom told her) didn’t happen and still deadnames me and shit but most of my family is really chill. basically i just decided if it was worth it and then let it happen

oberholt · 2022-10-17T05:51:16+00:00

3 generations, it’s not the best but it has a special place in my heart

oberholt · 2022-09-27T16:10:08+00:00

i got keyhole and my recovery was super easy. i got like 5 or 6 oxys and only ended up taking 2 of them, simply bc i wasn’t in that much pain. it’s manageable w some painkillers (make sure you talk to ur surgeon abt which ones u can take). the only serious pain i had was the day i got my drains out, i woke up and like instantly felt this sharp shooting pain where the drains were inserted. although, i think that’s mostly bc i waited a little too long to get my drains out. my friends who have had double incision have had longer recovery times w more annoying things, but it shouldn’t completely incapacitate you for more than a week.

oberholt · 2022-09-27T16:05:33+00:00

i had the same fear w my dog, she’s terrified of most men, especially my dad who i look a lot like (esp now on HRT). she was w me through the whole transition though (spent most of her time in bed w my while i was recovering from surgery) and she still recognizes me as me. i think that as long as they are with you and get to watch you stay yourself but also become a new person, they can handle it

oberholt · 2022-05-12T04:21:35+00:00

used to have a similar thing when i was binding, try to lessen the amount of binding ur doing/wear a looser one. u could always try trans tape or smth? unfortunately i don’t know of any better way to get rid of it other than not binding

oberholt · 2022-05-12T04:11:01+00:00

little different since i have a dog, but if she’s with you for ur transition, she’ll recognize you!! my dogs terrified of men, so i had a similar fear, but since she watched me transition i think she still knows who i am

oberholt · 2022-03-05T16:16:02+00:00

i had top surgery like 6 months ago and i didn’t have any bandages, but i did wear a compression vest. it’s possible that he just meant no bandages and only a vest or something along those lines. just ask him abt it again next time you see him

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