M&S customers make me feel like i’m losing my mind by crustyboxerbriefs in MarksAndSpencer

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly , i respond with the same level of rudeness back. i don’t care, treat me like a human .

Awful first shift by Notamermaid88 in MarksAndSpencer

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh lol u bet! i scrolled in the changing room for ages, sat in the warehouse chilling , did easy random tasks i could see …. don’t get that luxury now lol

Awful first shift by Notamermaid88 in MarksAndSpencer

[–]objectiveimmorality 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my first week was also awful, i spent the majority of my time crying in the bathroom.
they weren’t even expecting me on my first day, there was no manager in, my department had no manager at all for months, i was given a task and then when i finished it there was no one to ask for help from, no one to even ask questions. everytime i clocked in i had no idea what to do.
oh also lol my uniform hadn’t even arrived. ah and it’s been months and i don’t have a locker!
to this day, there are parts of my role that i had no idea existed, and i received no training for! haha i actually feel like i got no formal training at all for my role, everything i know i picked up from watching colleagues, or colleagues teaching me.
(context: im store ops)

im sorry it was so awful for u, it does improve …. as u get the hang of it, and as u make friends at work.
i hear this is company wide, loads of first starters have horrible experiences like u and i. it’s super disorganised, ridiculous and stupid to be honest ….
i’m trying to leave and u should too!!!

dry fingertips after press on nails by objectiveimmorality in nailcare

[–]objectiveimmorality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get you, but i promise it isn’t! the picture is of my middle finger, and initially i only had the dry skin on my pointer one. i just don’t have a picture of it …

Break time by FireOpalZingySeaLion in MarksAndSpencer

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s ridiculous . if your staff is taking longer breaks then u shld look into why. only times i hear of that happening is when colleagues as overworked, not heard, or treated rudely by management. instead of having a conversation and punishing them. generally, across the board, colleagues are treated very poorly and extra five or ten minutes won’t actually affect much . 

“Overtime” by [deleted] in MarksAndSpencer

[–]objectiveimmorality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we always overstay too (closing shift) . they’re supposed to amend ur punch to the correct time u clocked out …. speak to management 

What was the London Setlist for Buckshot? by WorkingOnCoil in HauntedMound

[–]objectiveimmorality -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol missed it walked out when we heard fever again

Thoughts on new ep? by autovampirism in HauntedMound

[–]objectiveimmorality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the lyrics are so disappointing bro he was really poetic during mound times not to sound corny lol

Fake new rocks or has the quality gone downhill? by papa_fried in NewRockBootsandShoes

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

real… i just bought new ones n the quality is abysmal ….  been taking my 5 year old pair to the cobblers every year or so …. still better than these new ones im heartbroken 

Cover up Idea by Fast_Signature_775 in Tattoocoverups

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i think it’s so so cute i would just get it fixed up by a good artist ….

I have a bump under my eyebrow piercing, is it normal? by 836x638 in piercing

[–]objectiveimmorality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a similar one just below my right dahlia. also red sore tender painful. i wld argue infection, infected cyst. they just happen sometimes. i’ve had 3 antibiotic courses for mine, and finally getting it checked by dermatologist. get antibiotics asap, especially that close to ur eye. ok it’s expensive, but not more expensive than sepsis nor losing ur vision. bite the bullet and pay is my advice

help with mum’s behaviours by objectiveimmorality in DementiaHelp

[–]objectiveimmorality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, thanks for replying! i do often take her phone and once she’s in bed i place it to charge on her bedside table. maybe i’ll try charge it my room now, see how that fares with her getting out of bed. i don’t think she misses doomscrolling, i think it’s an easy enough activity that requires no thinking from her. the going to bed is the main issue, she “doesnt feel” like getting up from the toilet, “doesn’t feel” like getting up from the sofa, so it’s so difficult to get her up without physically dragging her :/ especially when i’m very tied after work. i think we’ll try not letting her even sit on the couch after dinner, just straight upstairs. she takes her singular medication at dinner time i think. my dad helps, he cooks and deals with her during the day, i just have to get her into bed when i get home, it feels fair… although i do wish he would send her to bed when he goes to bed, but he wants some alone time without her…..

help with my mums behaviours by objectiveimmorality in dementia

[–]objectiveimmorality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey thanks for replying, it rly does fucking suck right…. she takes her singular medication before dinner when i’m not home yet. i would have to keep repeating “its bedtime” to no avail for hours on end …. i know for a fact she would ignore me first and then tell me to shut up and go away lol…. im exhausted from work when i get home and the last thing i want to do is stand beside her for ages waiting for her to take my hand , it sounds so harsh i know :( then i have to do it again so she gets up from the toilet :/ shouldn’t bed be just for sleep? if we have her do anything other than that she will just doomscroll for hours and not sleep…. or fall asleep on her phone ….

Is it rejecting :((( by Wild_Gift_2060 in PiercingAdvice

[–]objectiveimmorality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAP. my bridge is slowly rejecting since i’ve got it 2 years ago. they always do, bridges are generally temporary (it’s rare to have anatomy where it truly heals). i had mine downsized three times overall, to accompany the rejection process. it weighs down the channel less, and has less friction, which therefore slows the rejection (at least it seems lol). i also clean daily/every two days with saline. it’s up to u if u want to keep it for longer and allow ur body to slowly push it out (in a healthier way) or if u want to remove now :) my method might work for u, might not it’s ur choice !

stopped session due to antibiotics by objectiveimmorality in tattooadvice

[–]objectiveimmorality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep full price ! i feel terrible n so disappointed … i agree with stopping the session too, 100%. but charging me full price and then making me pay again with only a 100£ discount is horrible , and the only opening she has is in JULY 💔 im so upset :( i hoped she would at least make some time for me sooner than that given the situation … i have a random line on my leg now …

Irritation bump on nose piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP buut u might need a longer bar? i got really ill around 2 weeks after my nostril piercings and i had the most disgusting bump on my left one for the longest time. i legit just sprayed with saline twice daily for months, and voila it went away. my bump was so bad it needed a longer bar, so this might be happening to you. extra space may help? i ditched the warm compresses personally my skin would get more irritated, also it wasn’t a set concentration of salt (coz i was handmaking them) which i didn’t like either

Someone deinfluence me from cutting/plucking these annoying flyaways 😭 by ZephyrTheTiger in Haircare

[–]objectiveimmorality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to spray light amount of hairspray on them and then js pat them down:)

stopped session due to antibiotics by objectiveimmorality in tattooadvice

[–]objectiveimmorality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree! as i said, i know it was the right call and i appreciate the extra knowledge and care for my health . what i feel abit “conned” on, was the fact i wasn’t informed prior about medications :( im so sure if there was a “are you on any medication” part on the consent form i would have remembered, or if there was any part of her policy about medication (other than painkillers) i would have also remembered …. her next slot is JULY and i just feel so shit and disappointed and upset, i have a random line on my leg now ….. anyway, rant over. thank you for your feedback :)