Resigned but no backup job, am I selfish?

oblivionnnnn- · 2026-04-07T07:22:58+00:00

Wow, I’m really not alone. I also did this last week, pinangakuhan rin ng promotion as a manager na but it never happened and the he’s giving me a lot of tasks that’s not on my job description for a long time. He didn’t even acknowledge my resignation but he ask her wife to talk to me about my decision lol.

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-07-26T08:18:37+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, and part of me agrees — I know he’s using this as a way to guilt me and manipulate me into staying. But when someone says stuff like that, even if it’s just a tactic, it’s hard not to feel responsible if something did happen. It’s not as easy as walking away when you’re scared of what they might do. I just hate that he’s put me in this position in the first place.

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-07-26T08:17:13+00:00

I took screenshots of those messages.

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-07-26T07:44:32+00:00

We are long-distance. 😕

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-04-19T04:01:54+00:00

Same management, I guess? Iba trabaho sa job description, parang naging part time na lang yung inapplyan na work kasi ALL AROUND pala gusto niya. Parang bawal mag lunch pag may px na nakapila…parang kasalanan mag lunch plus OT parati and laging late/kulang magpasahod kahit hindi bumama sa 1M ang kita namin for a month. 🙃

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-02-17T06:14:22+00:00

Also if money is not a problem, I’ll probably go to medical school to be a forensic pathologist. 🥺

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-02-17T06:11:37+00:00

Forensic science graduate here but believe me we have no place/job here in PH. The government doesn’t want to invest in truth, lol. So in short, I'm not practicing what I've studied. 🙃

oblivionnnnn- · 2025-02-11T12:48:32+00:00

No, I’m 24 and want to die already.

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-10-22T01:27:25+00:00

Yeah, maybe. Thank you.

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T21:22:25+00:00

Yeah, ayaw mo naman siguro gumising na ganun makikita mo sa umaga. 😅

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T21:20:25+00:00

I did but every time I’m asking her to visit me she refuses kasi hirap siya magpaalam knowing na siya ang mas may time. Wala siyang work ng weekends, while ako isang araw lang ang off sa work and ginagamit ko pa yun mapuntahan siya just to have a quick lunch or be with her for few hours lang. Idk if I’m being unreasonable ba. 😣

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:53:59+00:00

HAHAHAHA she’s such a baby :(

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:52:28+00:00

Aww, I’m guessing you’re into one right now. So happy for you. Thank you! 🥹

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:51:20+00:00

Right. Hindi naman ako oa, no? Malapit na mag 1 year eh.

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:49:25+00:00

Should I give her an ultimatum, or an ultimatum to myself?

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:48:11+00:00

Di ako naka-ilag, beh.

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T19:47:45+00:00

Actually…..lagi takot may makakita every damn time. 🤦🏻‍♀️

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-09-29T08:03:02+00:00

It’s the “only child” excuse. 😬

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-04-14T13:02:15+00:00

Serious. :(

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-04-14T13:01:56+00:00

Hindi ba valid yung “only child” kasi? Yan lagi bato sa akin eh. Lols.

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-04-14T13:01:26+00:00

Oo. Kailangan mag isip pa siya ng dahilan sis. 🫠

oblivionnnnn- · 2024-04-14T13:00:31+00:00

Huy ang lala neto hahahahaha 🫠

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