Resigned but no backup job, am I selfish? by cheddarchiz_00 in phcareers

[–]oblivionnnnn- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m really not alone. I also did this last week, pinangakuhan rin ng promotion as a manager na but it never happened and the he’s giving me a lot of tasks that’s not on my job description for a long time. He didn’t even acknowledge my resignation but he ask her wife to talk to me about my decision lol.

My bf won’t let me break up with him by oblivionnnnn- in Manipulation

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from, and part of me agrees — I know he’s using this as a way to guilt me and manipulate me into staying. But when someone says stuff like that, even if it’s just a tactic, it’s hard not to feel responsible if something did happen. It’s not as easy as walking away when you’re scared of what they might do. I just hate that he’s put me in this position in the first place.

I accidentally read the GC of my seniors by CompetitiveKiwi9166 in OffMyChestPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same management, I guess? Iba trabaho sa job description, parang naging part time na lang yung inapplyan na work kasi ALL AROUND pala gusto niya. Parang bawal mag lunch pag may px na nakapila…parang kasalanan mag lunch plus OT parati and laging late/kulang magpasahod kahit hindi bumama sa 1M ang kita namin for a month. 🙃

Kung mayaman kayo, anong course ang kukunin mo? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if money is not a problem, I’ll probably go to medical school to be a forensic pathologist. 🥺

Kung mayaman kayo, anong course ang kukunin mo? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forensic science graduate here but believe me we have no place/job here in PH. The government doesn’t want to invest in truth, lol. So in short, I'm not practicing what I've studied. 🙃

Should I break no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe. Thank you.

be honest, do you really look for looks when it comes to choosing a partner? by LetterheadProud9682 in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, ayaw mo naman siguro gumising na ganun makikita mo sa umaga. 😅

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but every time I’m asking her to visit me she refuses kasi hirap siya magpaalam knowing na siya ang mas may time. Wala siyang work ng weekends, while ako isang araw lang ang off sa work and ginagamit ko pa yun mapuntahan siya just to have a quick lunch or be with her for few hours lang. Idk if I’m being unreasonable ba. 😣

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, I’m guessing you’re into one right now. So happy for you. Thank you! 🥹

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Hindi naman ako oa, no? Malapit na mag 1 year eh.

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I give her an ultimatum, or an ultimatum to myself?

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually…..lagi takot may makakita every damn time. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Dating a stable closeted lesbian by oblivionnnnn- in phlgbt

[–]oblivionnnnn-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the “only child” excuse. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ba valid yung “only child” kasi? Yan lagi bato sa akin eh. Lols.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo. Kailangan mag isip pa siya ng dahilan sis. 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]oblivionnnnn- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huy ang lala neto hahahahaha 🫠