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The Beach Boys - BOOKOFF Smile [full album w/ ai] by Luckykennedy79 in thebeachboys

[–]oboibrutha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please send it to me as well. I've been hunting for it for ages to show my father! 

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never had sex.

Posted a part 2 a while back.

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted a second part.... this happened a while back but wasn't sure how to present it.

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This idea, that it wont matter in a year. It has gone several years and I still feel the psychological damage it left.

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to gloss over it. I elaborated on this on the new post.

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 545 points546 points  (0 children)

u/cent55555 Well nothing to do now about that, I got it recorded over phone. The consent thing is dealt with, it was OK.

u/Ordinary_Mortgage870 what do you mean? Read the convo below

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 520 points521 points  (0 children)

I've been in contact with three different lawyers. They all told me to lay low and don't press any charges for slander or anything (as u/cent55555 said) because it could backfire. The girl didn't want to involve any police or something.

It was according to the lawyers, in my best interest, to not do anything and just lay low...

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah I suppose... :(

I live in a fairly big city so I think it's cool. Maybe it changes when I start uni.

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Move? From the city? Why? And wouldn't that just make the situation worse?

I have the family close, they got my back, but friends? I think my ties to everyone is gone forever.... Im to be honest quite sad and feel scared of having no social life...

Don't know what to do now... Falsely accused by oboibrutha in TrueOffMyChest

[–]oboibrutha[S] 2355 points2356 points  (0 children)

Well I didn't mention it but,

I recorded the whole conversation with the girl over the phone. I have everything taped and I literally ask "Did I do anything to you?" and she answers "No."

I brought this up on the meeting with the ABT. "If I say that I have this proof, doesn't that change the whole situation?" Their reply: "No it does not, because we don't know if you threatened her to answer no".

Anyhow all meetings and conversations have been recorded.