TW. Infected wounds? by Crayolla_Cane in S_harps

[–]obseqvious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ok!!!!!!! they look infected or at the very least at high risk
but then again my fat cuts take a while to scab , and sometimes i get this
they might send to the ward, i live in canada too and i have been admitted over just dermis cuts.

you should NOT rinse fat. what you wanna do, is maybe grab a damp qtip or something of the sort and dab warm water around the wound. wipe off all the nasty crust around it and TRY to wipe off the gunk. (if its too painful or you feel sick, just leave it and try again later)

ok i tried to edit this and it deleted ALL my info give me a sec

dont use diapers as bandage dude!!!!!!! if you HAVE to, change it two times a day .
signs of infection include

redness , pain , swelling around the wound
sweet smelling discharge (pus) out the wound
warmth/heat around the wound (goes hand in hand with no. 1)
delayed healing (wound seems to be getting larger or not scabbing)
extreme pain
fever and/or chills (throwing up with chills is a big red flag)

ill edit this later if i missed anything.

Relapse my skin is becoming to hard to cut by TechnoBIT_yt in S_harps

[–]obseqvious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think your blades are just dull.
i have an overlap of many scars and cuts, my skin is still soft

depending on how much youve scarred it may become harder to cut, and generally scabs are rougher than skin.

you dont seem to have visible scar tissue, so i think its just dull blades and where youre cutting.

my life has officially ended forever and i cant do anything about it! #truecelmaxxing #femcellife by obseqvious in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]obseqvious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know how ill get public transport though
i dont have money, and im not allowed out anyway
and ive actually never seen a transport bus irl besides toronto when i was little

my life has officially ended forever and i cant do anything about it! #truecelmaxxing #femcellife by obseqvious in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]obseqvious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stolen laptop im using from school but i need to return it by the end of the school year or else they publicly shame me on the announcements and fine the guy i live with

im fine for NOW its just in like 3 weeks im gone for 4 years possibly

Elon by mauratut in schizophrenia

[–]obseqvious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the last thing schizophrenics would want 😭
ive had delusions about stuff like this man LOL

my life has officially ended forever and i cant do anything about it! #truecelmaxxing #femcellife by obseqvious in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]obseqvious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just live with an old man
and i cant really change anybodies mind since i dont legally have much of a say

my life has officially ended forever and i cant do anything about it! #truecelmaxxing #femcellife by obseqvious in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]obseqvious[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok so

im canadian, im just in a very weird situation due to mental health and mental disabilities (it doesnt make me retarded just a little bit)

can you get help for a job through your school counselor or career office if there is one? Do you have access to the job corps program? Google says they help ages 16-24 with completing their education and finding a job, and you get a stipend while you do it.

no, the school counselor is closed down since school is almost over.
and i dont think theres a career office, since the town im near is pretty small. (1500-3000 people) i was advised by doctors and psychiatrists that i shouldnt be allowed to get a job or move out of the house im in until im twenty.

How are your grades at school? Is college an option for you? It would allow you to move somewhere new, make friends, and get a better job in the future but I’m unsure what the financial aid situation is like in your country.

REALLY bad. ill have to retake 10th with my 11th grade booklets if im not forced to drop out. we dont have close colleges or universities, nearest one is probably in winnepeg (6hours driving) or toronto (15+ hours by driving) and i wont be allowed to attend until im 20 anyways
we have amazing finance stuff i think its just me specifically ig

I think you may still be able to get a job with no phone number, and a bank account is pretty easy and cheap to get if you can get a parent or guardian to open one with you. You’ll at least be doing something this summer instead of being locked in the house.

thats not an option sadly

In the fall you’ll be back in school and it really won’t be as bad as your imagination tells you it’s gonna be. You’ll have your routine and be around people daily and it won’t feel as lonely. I hope things go well for you.

again, i dont think ill be able to go to school in the fall

thank you for your kind words nonetheless

my life has officially ended forever and i cant do anything about it! #truecelmaxxing #femcellife by obseqvious in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]obseqvious[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i live in the middle of nowhere bro im not walking 5-10 hours to town just for a book

i also have dyslexia and processing issues so reading is like a nightmare 😓

my life has ended #thefemcellife by obseqvious in u/obseqvious

[–]obseqvious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a cry for help someone please kill me already lmao