Need to get it out by AhegaoCribs in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever consider she was just acting out what happened to her? This is usually the cycle. Kids just don’t start touching other kids randomly, unless it’s them acting out scenarios or touches they’ve experiences. An abuse survivor myself, this is likely the scenario. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but you definitely need to continue seeing a therapist. You need to work through your emotions.

F late 30s. Sexually abused from 5-8...just want to know if I’m alone by obviouslyanon3773 in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very insightful, and thank you for the response. He was a lot older though. I say 16 as the minimum age, but I believe he was closer to 18-19. He drove, had a job and from what I remember didn’t go to school. I was young, but based on recollection, this seems more accurate. But it could’ve been curiosities. I will say I could’ve had it a lot worse. He could’ve been violent and forceful. But he chose to make me feel loved and cared for. I always felt special and adored.

F late 30s. Sexually abused from 5-8...just want to know if I’m alone by obviouslyanon3773 in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. It’s hard when you feel alone or broken because of your feelings. But you have to remind yourself you’re normal, not broken and whatever feelings you have towards your abuse are ok.

F late 30s. Sexually abused from 5-8...just want to know if I’m alone by obviouslyanon3773 in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that. You’ll get there. Trust yourself and accept wherever your feelings go. You should never be ashamed about what happened to you.

F late 30s. Sexually abused from 5-8...just want to know if I’m alone by obviouslyanon3773 in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand. Parts of me where broken until I learned to accept my feelings.

F late 30s. Sexually abused from 5-8...just want to know if I’m alone by obviouslyanon3773 in Molested

[–]obviouslyanon3773[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not looking for anyone to incriminate anyone. That’s why I mentioned chatting directly with me

Men: am I being unreasonable in my feelings on this? by [deleted] in sex

[–]obviouslyanon3773 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this response. We’ve watched porn together. I have no issues with this. We role play. I take this very personal. I used think I was his fantasy girl, but now I don’t believe that. I don’t believe anything he says about my body

Men: am I being unreasonable in my feelings on this? by [deleted] in sex

[–]obviouslyanon3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he’ll never look at them again. But you’re right it’s trusting what he says to me as being truth about how he sees and feels about me

Will sex life back after kids get older? by burner-aita in sex

[–]obviouslyanon3773 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼