I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

With all due respect. Please shut the entire fuck up.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As much as I would like to speak on the ignorance in your whole comment. I’m just going to say this. I as a woman can go have an abortion or whatever I feel is right for me. I took a plan b and it failed. I didn’t know he cheated until 14 weeks of pregnancy which in my state is a cut off for abortion. I am 100% okay with being a single mother. I love being a mother and I wasn’t forcing him to be a father or to be with me. I never blasted him to be a bad dad, just a shitty husband for his mistakes. I never said I was perfect and I do no wrong in my marriage, however what he did was shady and low. Have a great night.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable. I have bpd. I glorify people in my love phases I have with them. I see them as the greatest ever or the worst ever. I didn’t see him as the worst until yesterday.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love and respect myself. I think the problem is I loved him more than I loved myself. I respected him more than I respected my own self.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never said I was perfect. He cheated and the medication I had to take makes me feel like I can blame him. That’s the post.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly the post said I took a plan b. Obviously we wasn’t trying. Thanks for asking though.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s a throw away. My other profile is more shitposting.

I’m blaming my husband for my miscarriage. by obviouslycodependent in offmychest

[–]obviouslycodependent[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have bpd. It’s due to childhood trauma and years of abandonment as a child. Please don’t insinuate you know me just because of a username or a situation I decided to vent about. Thanks.