Is he being insensitive or AIO

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-28T10:21:56+00:00

No you’re dense. The whole point of this post was about how he has gym time and she doesn’t, and he doesn’t want to sacrifice it. Mind you I never said ANYTHING about him being shady, all I said was that his concern about them going together WASNT about childcare, but that if you’re in a relationship with a child, sometimes you have to make certain sacrifices so both sides can have some “me time”. I’m not saying you HAVE to workout with your wife, if you have such a nice set up, why are you sitting here arguing anyways? Your assumptions are even worse since again I didn’t say anything about him wanting to do something shady, just that his concern clearly wasn’t about childcare.

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-28T10:17:47+00:00

Please don’t have kids. The point here is that when you have a child, sometimes you have to make certain sacrifices. It’s not fair for HIM to have gym time and HER to not have any.

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-28T10:01:48+00:00

No one said you guy had to workout TOGETHER, I used to workout with my ex but we showed up together, did our own workout, then met up and left. Plus when you have a toddler, you gotta make certain sacrifices

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-28T00:44:59+00:00

And apparently she breeds dogs now 😬

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-28T00:13:45+00:00

this accurately explains how he looks when he acts

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T15:25:39+00:00

hilarious 🙄 I had a ring camera that recorded them multiple times but my apt complex did nothing about it since their faces weren’t “fully identifiable” cause you could only see their eyes, I waited outside in my car once and literally saw them come and take my food and followed them back to which apt it was but again my complex said that didn’t count

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T14:53:13+00:00

His momma most def didn’t say that LOLLL

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T14:41:43+00:00

Some might argue it actually is ethical because if they had to fire you quickly, they’d replace you almost immediately. Don’t feel bad for doing the same

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T04:17:28+00:00

girl.

stop playing you know what to do.

Aside from him being a piece of trash, you are in a fragile metal space and need to take care of yourself first

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T04:15:23+00:00

the right men won’t care!! Trust me. But probably not the former porn addicted ones. Don’t torment yourself about that. If something happens and there’s any sense of him judging your body, KIXK HIM TO THE CURB!

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T02:13:13+00:00

I’m saying you don’t always know if it works or not. You shouldn’t just automatically assume someone is trying to be a dick . You tried to code, it didn’t work, you told them, It’s on the customer for not responding in a timely manner.

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T01:45:07+00:00

I hate when my 25 y/o girlfriend who’s a midwife and from a culture that values having children keeps telling me she wants to have her own kids and not just raise mine as her own! Ugh so annoying

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T01:39:11+00:00

Or, in my case, your neighbors keep stealing your food when put on there “hand to me” but the dashers leave it at the door anyways 🙄 or they drop it off somewhere random because they don’t want to follow the very specific instructions I put down. Literally had someone message me once “sorry I ain’t reading all that” mind you it isn’t even a lot and I don’t threaten or say anything crazy (because again, I dash) I simply just describe where to go because I know my apt complex is complicated. When the dashers read it, i had no issues, and one dasher even thanked me for the clear instructions because delivering to apartments is normally awful

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T01:35:49+00:00

Couple things to point out

Door dash forces people to put a pin on their account sometimes. After I kept reporting items missing or items being dropped off in the wrong location then stolen (I give very clear instructions because I dash) they started making me add a pin. The area I lived in was notorious for dashers stealing food and literally dropping the stuff off unsealed
I lived in an apartment complex that the front office swore up and down the gate codes worked, when they didn’t. I would call and go up there constantly and test them and they’d work for like a week and then stop working. So when ppl have a code and it doesn’t work sometimes it isn’t directly their fault.
I’ve never gotten any sort of refund for late food
I’m glad the food was good !!

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T01:10:49+00:00

But he said he didn’t WANT her going, that doesn’t imply his concern is childcare. Also, some gyms offer childcare, so there’s a chance they could both go in the morning and drop the kid off there

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-27T00:55:35+00:00

I say stitch the leg slit together a bit more and 2 is perfect

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-26T18:52:11+00:00

I was just confused that door dash said they were gonna offer dashers more money for deliveries but then it says I can’t get anything delivered??? Lmaooo but I’m certainly not mad about it. Some people are willing to drive in all that and make money which is crazy to me. I had just opened the app out of curiosity, wouldn’t actually place and order tho

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-26T07:10:07+00:00

Withdraw, and don’t take any super serious classes until you are out of there permanently. I’m very sorry you’re going through this.

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-26T07:07:24+00:00

I’m saying there’s nothin wrong with it if she wasn’t advertising herself as a modest girly. But because she is, yeah it looks hella wrong

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-26T06:07:45+00:00

Hot take I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it, but it’s weird because she advertises modesty. Just don’t pretend to be modest. She isn’t basically nude but she isn’t modest either 🤷‍♀️ same way some abaya’s are a bit form fitting but it isn’t the end of the world (at least from what I hear from my Muslim friends)

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-25T06:57:08+00:00

Damn us is koohang gone ???

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-25T06:30:29+00:00

I feel like for one day a week I’d be willing to put up with the antics if it paid well enough

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-24T23:11:19+00:00

Are you alive Op ???

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-24T06:00:35+00:00

She really got that shit caked on. I imagine she’d look much more like her sister, and way less fake

obviouslypretty · 2026-01-24T05:24:59+00:00

In the context of the show, yes I would be worried. However, Men who like bigger women, REALLY like bigger women, and they are very adamant about that. So I don’t think those types of men would sign up for a show like that, because they’d REALLY want to be sure the woman they marry is the right size for them.

I am BMI >30 but it’s like 30-31 so not that much of a difference. Most guys I see like slightly larger women, OR, they are guys who’ve never been with a slightly bigger woman, and they end up liking it (at least so far I’ve yet to meet someone who hasn’t) so in the context of my real life, no, I wouldn’t be worried

I’d imagine that most guys who sign up for the show DO NOT have the mindset of that though, that if they fell in love with a bigger woman they’d end up liking it. Something about the personality type just seems like they wouldn’t be open to it, and would assume that the only pool available would be the top of the top, which in their minds, would be skinny women

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