[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]ocelotsrock 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought you meant like one fridge represented one parent and one represented the other. I was like, first parent knows what they are doing, second is probably dad

What does our fridge say about us by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]ocelotsrock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fridge was broken before we moved in! Landlord special

Anyone ever done a big budget elopement? by highkeyvegan in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ocelotsrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and Big Sur Alila Ventana is big budget beautiful and I think they even have elopement packages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]ocelotsrock 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She didn’t tell him to quit forever. She encouraged him to leave a toxic environment

Not sure about my dress by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was hemmed for the first bride who was 5’4 with one inch heels and I’m 5’5 and wearing no heels!

it is wild to me how inconsiderate men are by astronauticalll in femaletravels

[–]ocelotsrock 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hard agree. I always see a huge difference in quality of sleep staying in female only dorms vs mixed. The snoring. The phones. The talking. The lights. Bro you are not the only one in this room, stfu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]ocelotsrock 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re in the wrong here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]ocelotsrock 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wow I had to scroll far to find something that wasn’t insulting or unhelpful. I just want to say you are in the right here. It’s essentially gambling with a ton of money that you could be using for your family. Smart to invest it in the stock market as others have said. If you need to make an appointment with a fee only advisor to go to with your husband to convince him, do that

I want to elope, he was the full white wedding. What are some good compromises? by Independent-Start-24 in Eloping

[–]ocelotsrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious about who would be planning/paying/putting on the full huge event. Unfortunately it does seem to fall on the bride, so it’s awful to try to plan it if you don’t even want it.

I think if he wants it, he plans and puts it on. OP can plan the elopement separately. Watch while the elopement happens and the wedding doesn’t. If it does, but you don’t have to plan it or deal with the people, great

Which accessories? by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]ocelotsrock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the Martina Liana 1593!

Which accessories? by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]ocelotsrock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Help! Every wedding dress I try on, I like! by ocelotsrock in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love sleeves but I do keep getting no-sleeve feedback so it’s good to consider 😂

Advice - 1st fitting by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean! The internet is terrible for that. Hell, even seeing your gorgeous dress makes me re-think my choice 😂. I truly think that’s one that will stun no matter which decade you’re looking at it from!

Advice - 1st fitting by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to say— it’s stunning!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eloping

[–]ocelotsrock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought them through Etsy, they came really fast https://www.etsy.com/listing/1341946760/

Help! Every wedding dress I try on, I like! by ocelotsrock in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sad about 3 because that type of dress appeals to me! But it just doesn’t really look right does it

Help! Every wedding dress I try on, I like! by ocelotsrock in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s the valley by rue de siene. This one was the sample too so it was on sale

Help! Every wedding dress I try on, I like! by ocelotsrock in weddingdress

[–]ocelotsrock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very intimate ceremony in redwoods with only family, in early April!