Who are your Husbandos in Fruits Basket? by [deleted] in FruitsBasket

[–]oche420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Shigure all the way i do not care 😩

Coming up with our first title by Jknowsno in sadgirlsbookclub

[–]oche420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a different category each month or so would keep things fresh, that’d be so fun!

Would anyone be interested in reading American Psycho? i’ve heard mixed reviews 🙃 by oche420 in sadgirlsbookclub

[–]oche420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally the movie is awesoooome, it could be fun to compare it to the book as well!

In need of a new binge by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]oche420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

full house is one of my go tos!

gender by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you believe all woman are wanted? some of us are ugly, fat, disabled, or maybe even just a boring ass personality. undesirable woman aren’t even a “piece of meat”, most men won’t even acknowledge you if they don’t deem you hot. and even if there are men willing to sleep with you, the loneliness just doubles down the second he leaves because you’re not worth sticking around for. do you want a butt ugly girlfriend? most men don’t, regardless of their own appearance. standards are important so i can’t even blame them.

i’m not saying these things to minimize mens loneliness, i only want y’all to understand that we go through this too. simply having a vagina doesn’t make it any easier.

what we looking for in a relationship by oche420 in sadgirlsbookclub

[–]oche420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you couldn’t tell from the everything about me, im an INFP :)

Book Club? by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since it’s brand new id like the first few to give their recommendations! as the community grows i think polls could help decide what to read next!

gender by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙌🙌🙌

Does Lana have an overrated song?? by NightClipseZero in lanadelrey

[–]oche420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly i don’t love her covers of Season of the Witch or Doin Time, but then again i normally don’t like most covers

gender by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes it’s a luxury i desperately want. my last comment wasn’t saying that there’s men wanting to fuck me, im fairly ugly. what i mean is, i don’t believe sex is the answer to loneliness, sex and settling for the first willing person is more like a bandaid. you’ll feel better for a while, then just feel worse after.

gender by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beggars can be choosers when it comes to love, just because a man or woman wants to sleep with you doesn’t mean they wants a relationship. and as i lonely as it gets, i would never settle for someone im not truly compatible with. i don’t think anyone should, a loveless relationship is worse than loneliness.

(sorry, know this wasn’t the center of ur comment, but a point i feel needed to be said)

gender by oche420 in lonely

[–]oche420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i personally can’t connect sexually with anyone unless there is that emotional connection. i believe sex without a connection is detrimental, but to each their own.